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2000 approaches... rejected 1988 times is that worth it?.

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PUA - One Year in Review Part 2 - YouTube --- This Pua dude (average looking) had to approach 2000 women (sets whatever...) to get 12 lays.

 

As good as he feels about it i would not be happy with that.

 

That´s why men don´t cold approach. Image if he was ugly he would have been rejected 100%. :lmao:

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He must have a pretty bad personality.

 

It seems like he is depressed and he doesn't look like a fun dude to have a conversation with.

 

Still crappy results.

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fortyninethousand322

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He got laid 12 times. Thats 12 times more than many guys on here got laid.

 

Very true.

 

Now, as for the OP, is it worth it? I don't know, if you've got nothing better to do than ask women out (or even just talk to women) then it's probably worth it. If, on the other hand you can find something else more worthwhile than interacting socially with women, then it's probably not worth it.

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It seems desperate to me. Almost 6 women per day. Like it's a full-time occupation and all the guy thinks about. Constantly searching for validation from women. That's not a good state of mind to be in when you run across a woman actually worth talking to.

 

And he's obviously lacking social skills. If he sat back and paid a little attention, he could have saved himself the trouble with a large number of them. I'm sure there were signs they were taken, were actually with someone, or there were other signs that making an approach would be a losing proposition.

 

Probably several hundred of those women observed him hitting on someone else before he found his way to them. That's how you kill two birds with one stone.

 

No wonder he seems depressed. I wouldn't want to be around a guy like that either. Who would?

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Hes got some thick skin if i got rejected as many times as him id be on a ledge..

 

I get rejected once in a night and im depressed and down on myself

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PUA - One Year in Review Part 2 - YouTube --- This Pua dude (average looking) had to approach 2000 women (sets whatever...) to get 12 lays.

 

As good as he feels about it i would not be happy with that.

 

That´s why men don´t cold approach. Image if he was ugly he would have been rejected 100%. :lmao:

 

I had a look at the guy. The first thing that I have noticed was that it was not true. He is not even average and he is very good-looking and very sexy. IMO, no normal man could approach 2000 women for 1 yr and no one would be capable of calculating so many approaches.

 

IMO If a guy makes so many approaches, he should figure out (probably by approach #30) what works out well for him. Unless, the statement 'practice makes perfect' does not apply to him for some reason.

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I had a look at the guy. The first thing that I have noticed was that it was not true. He is not even average and he is very good-looking and very sexy. IMO, no normal man could approach 2000 women for 1 yr and no one would be capable of calculating so many approaches.

 

IMO If a guy makes so many approaches, he should figure out (probably by approach #30) what works out well for him. Unless, the statement 'practice makes perfect' does not apply to him for some reason.

 

Saw the same thing & stopped watching.

Dude looks good & looks like he lifts.

He must be really awkward around women or have a crap personality.

He does come off very dry in the beginning of the video.

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12 lays out of 2,000 approaches. That's a 0.006% success ratio.

 

Watched the video for two minutes.

 

Definitely an above average guy so it shouldn't be that hard for him.

 

Then he went into how he lives an hour from San Diego which is where he approaches women and that he has a very busy work schedule, then everything makes since why he's having trouble.

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Yeah i saw the video and thought this guys too good looking to be rejected that much..

 

Yeah he was kind of boring and dry but ive seen worse plus he didnt seem THAT socially retarded..

 

Off his looks alone he should have had better sucess and ran into a few women who were horny and attracted enough regardless of personality..

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No, not worth it at all... if all a guy cares about is getting laid, then hire a prostitute.

 

Much more effective. Maybe even safer depending on where one goes. Vegas, Amsterdam... strict health codes there...

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That´s why men don´t cold approach.

 

Based on the sample presented (1 man) it looks to me like men do lots and lots and lots of cold approaches, but they suck at it. :rolleyes:

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The Way I Am

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They guy isn't bad looking, but the combinations of the v neck, his tone of voice, and his haircut give off a douchey bro vibe. I'm not surprised he has so many rejections.

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As an asian male, it would be 10x harder for him. (for approaching white girls)

If it was a white guy, it will take a lot less number to achieve 12 lays.

 

Sure, Americans are all nice. there is no racism in this country.

But being friends playing board game Vs sucking his cock are totally different things.

Most girls wont mind hanging out with him but very very few will get sexual with a guy like him.

 

Why am I saying such things? It's based on my experience.

I get numbers and most of them would flake out.

the only girls who came through, had experience with asian guys before. (meaning they had asian penis inside before) so I am sure it was easier for them to see me as sexual object.

 

If I get a reply from match.com, it's either from a girl who dated asian or a girl who has some asian culture fantasy.

 

I try to be positive and hit on any girls I like. But I seem to end up with those type of girls all the time.......

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Based on the sample presented (1 man) it looks to me like men do lots and lots and lots of cold approaches, but they suck at it. :rolleyes:

 

I could be much better at my approaches BUT, sometimes the women give you little to nothing to work with.

 

If the gal wants to talk to me its easy to make the conversation flow....

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1) The guy barely makes direct eye contact with the camera during the video (at least the few minutes I watched).

 

2) Regarding his manner of communication (voice inflections, word choice, hand gestures and body language)...on a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 = ridiculously socially awkward, 5 = average/normal, 10 = phenomenal social skills and confidence...I'd rate him a 4. Not terrible, but below what most women would probably prefer.

 

Overall, the guy gives off a mild vibe of uptight-ness and insecurity. If he's like this during his approaches then of course he's going to be turned down a lot. His tendency to overanalyze isn't helping him either.

 

2000 approaches? If that's true (I'm highly skeptical) then this guy also needs to get a life. And perhaps raise his standards a bit too.

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