Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 To me a nice guy and good man are the same thing. We have to be careful when we say "women" not all women are the same and want the same thing. I never said all women want the same thing. Unless I say "all" women, it isn't fair to suggest I am saying "all" women. Just because I didn't say "some" women, doesn't mean I mean "all" women. I loosely said "women". For most women, they see a distinction between "nice guys" and "good men". You are the first woman I ever have told me nice guys and good men meant the same exact thing to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Why can't the definition of a nice guy also include excitement, passion, etc.? There's no reason it shouldn't. So-called nice guys does not necessarily equate to nerds. There are some "nice guys" who are as passionate, exciting as the bad boys, w/o the need to be an a-hole to prove anything... Because "nice guys" already carries a social connotation that woman who don't have very strong feelings toward a man use. What do women say when they are not interested in someone that is decent? "Well, he is a nice guy BUT...." Which roughly translate that he had good qualities but he does not excite her. As a man, wouldn't you want to excite your partner? I am not implying that "nice guys" aren't infact great guys. One woman's "nice guy" can be another woman's "good man". But a lot of women do see a difference between "nice guys" and "good men" and naturally "bad boys". And seriously, why wouldn't you want to be a "good man" over a "nice guy" anyway? Doesn't being a "good man" just sound better then simply being a "nice guy"? Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 I wish I could make like 10,000 accounts and like this 10,000 times Wow! Thank you. What a nice compliment Still. Link to post Share on other sites
Big Blue Box Posted August 28, 2012 Share Posted August 28, 2012 Not true in the slightest. I wouldn't get involved with anything other than a sweet, caring and pleasant girl. The 'exciting' girls who have tasted 50 knobs and drugged themselves every weekend for nearly 2 decades can stick to their own kind. Well then you are asking for it. The term "sweet girl" is a label for socially awkward women much like "nice guy" is a label for socially awkward men Both should be avoided as both carry a high risk of failure long before the couple can get into the relationship stage and an even much higher risk(Almost 100%) of failure if it does reach that stage. Trust me, I have dated "sweet girls" and they weren't worth the time and effort. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romanticlove263 Posted August 29, 2012 Author Share Posted August 29, 2012 Good man, meaning (loosely) a man with integrity, honor, respect, loyalty...those positive qualities that women enjoy in men....Excitment meaning a man that doesn't just agree with everything you say in hopes of pleasing you, stands his own ground, developed his own interests, is passionate about something (really it could be anything since different women are attracted to different passions)..... I hope this helps? I know it's very generic but that might be the best I can do. Do you know why women live fire fighters? It's not because of their big shoulders. If it was, then women would like professional Wrestles just as much but they generally don't. Fire fighters symbolize men that are willing to risk something for others. They symbolize honor, integrity and strength. They symbolize the good qualities most women seek in men who want healthy relationships in combination with the passion he has to contribute something. "man that doesn't just agree with everything you say in hopes of pleasing you" so this is the reason why women don't like nice guys and see them as weak? I am not that kind of guy i don't take bull**** from women, l always equate the good man and nice guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romanticlove263 Posted August 29, 2012 Author Share Posted August 29, 2012 This is very simple OP. If you make decent money, you can have a field day with women in their prime marrying ages. Now take heed that this ONLY applies to single women looking to marry, which if you're part of the college educated class isn't too hard to find. Basically she'll be looking for some nice doophus to marry at this point because her looks are fading and the clock is ticking, I see it all the time. Just spout off a bunch of bs about how you want a family etc... etc... bang her for awhile and gently dump her, rinse and repeat. Many of these women are still quite attractive and won't be bitches because they're trying to get married. Late twenties early 30's ONLY. Single women past this age are straight up kidults. If you are looking for something serious I would go younger personally. Say 4-5 years. If you're a nice guy schlub you may have to work on your dominance in order to land these women though. It's not hard though, eye contact, hygiene, dominance if these traits aren't natural FAKE them. It's really not hard. Good advice:)you said it as it is no sugar coating. will keep a eye on your posts 5 star comment. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romanticlove263 Posted August 29, 2012 Author Share Posted August 29, 2012 Good man, meaning (loosely) a man with integrity, honor, respect, loyalty...those positive qualities that women enjoy in men....Excitment meaning a man that doesn't just agree with everything you say in hopes of pleasing you, stands his own ground, developed his own interests, is passionate about something (really it could be anything since different women are attracted to different passions)..... I hope this helps? I know it's very generic but that might be the best I can do. Do you know why women live fire fighters? It's not because of their big shoulders. If it was, then women would like professional Wrestles just as much but they generally don't. Fire fighters symbolize men that are willing to risk something for others. They symbolize honor, integrity and strength. They symbolize the good qualities most women seek in men who want healthy relationships in combination with the passion he has to contribute something. Ted Mosby the character from how i met your mother is the true definition of a good man. Whilst barney stinson from i how i met your mother is the definition of the guy i was saying in my OP " women usually choose" Link to post Share on other sites
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