Author Coffee20 Posted August 29, 2012 Author Share Posted August 29, 2012 (edited) Hello Radu, I think he played me, no I guess I know it, he had to show the world that he can have gf too. He had me on facebook as a status. I know well he wasn't in love with me, I thought he would fall in love later but my trying took as annoying. He also didn't miss me. I know why he was with me and I am angry. About the damsel. After two weeks we broke my old friend told me how much he loved me and that I was an angel and he wanted to be my bf. He took me to the wonderful date and I felt stupid to be with him that day. I remember I told him that I was broken and not ready to date, I was very sorry but I didn't want to hurt him and he answered back he didn't mind I was broken he wanted to show me that men were good too. I answered "no I can't be with you, I would only hurt you", we don't talk since this situation and I am sorry, cause I miss my old friend who always supported me. Actually a few of my friends (boys) then tried to get close to me and they were even able to listen to me and pushed me to talk about it although I didn't say much about my ex. And also from my own experience, people don't usually "play" damsel but they really feel it. Like they are so broken they need someone to talk about it and they need help to get over the relationship they use someone as a rebound or they just stay for a while with someone and when they feel ok they leave. I know how it tastes from both sides and I know it's wrong. I also hate questions like: How is your bf? - ANSWER I don't know we broke up AAAAH I didn't know, why? - ANSWER He probably lost his interest. Why did he lose his interest? - ANSWER I don't know, ask him (and I try to turn the page, but I usually fail). How could someone lose interest in you? Does he disturb you? Was he cruel to you? You always seem so nice, so is there anything wrong with you that he left? etc etc. I usually say I don't want to talk about it and then questions stop. But people are so curious. And then there is always a question "So do you have anyone new now?" Ok there are two people who know a lot about my relationship my two close friends (girls) and that's enough. But on the other hand I hated when my ex talked about his ex the way he did. He did this since, I don't know, but it was during the first month of dating. It was only positive like what he liked and missed about her, he even went to comparing me to her. It didn't feel well especially when he told me that he missed her and would like to see her. Edited August 29, 2012 by Coffee20 Link to post Share on other sites
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