Consolidated Discussion - A man's/woman's height in the search for relationships

[Bruce Leigh]

But when I come and read stuff here, I get pissed and start self-loathing again.

 

There's your answer right there, stop coming here.

Seriously, just get out there and enjoy yourself, you are 16.

[KaliLove]

Yet you like his post...

 

If he's right, then how will I be fine (unless I get severely lucky with a huge growth spurt and massive improvements in facial aesthetics which is unlikely)?

 

He was being sarcastic...

 

You know..if you really think you're a 2..prove it. Post a picture. Let us be the judges.

[Bruce Leigh]

You know..if you really think you're a 2..prove it. Post a picture. Let us be the judges.

 

Judge not lest ye be judged yourself.

 

Not religious, a Metallica fan

[somedude81]

There's your answer right there, stop coming here.

Seriously, just get out there and enjoy yourself, you are 16.

 

That's pretty much it.

 

Frankly I thought that there was a rule that you can only post here if you're 18.

 

R3D2 needs to at least live life a bit before complaining on here.

[R3d]

There's your answer right there, stop coming here.

Seriously, just get out there and enjoy yourself, you are 16.

 

Implying that the Loveshack's community's beliefs about leagues are false...

 

I don't know if they are or not, which means there's a considerable chance they are NOT, nd if they are not, then I am ****ed.

[KaliLove]

Not religious, a Metallica fan

 

Other people on this site have met me. Ask them.

[KaliLove]

That's pretty much it.

 

Frankly I thought that there was a rule that you can only post here if you're 18.

 

R3D2 needs to at least live life a bit before complaining on here.

 

Hahahahaha, the R3D2 cracked me up. Thank you! I'm not feeling well today and I needed that!

[R3d]

He was being sarcastic...

 

You know..if you really think you're a 2..prove it. Post a picture. Let us be the judges.

 

I already did in another thread. My facial aesthetics were rated at 3-4 the most on girlsaskguys.com polls. Then because I am shorter than 5'8, I have to halve my score...

 

I have a picture on my profile page. Go check it out...

 

And I don't think he was being sarcastic.

[Bruce Leigh]

Implying that the Loveshack's community's beliefs about leagues are false...

 

They aren't beliefs, they are opinions.

I love the quote:

 

Opinions are like *******s, everybody's got one. Albert Schweitzer

 

I like his quotes especially this one :

 

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful

[KaliLove]

Oh my goodness..you're definitely better than a 2! Geeeeeez..I was expecting the Elephant Man!!!

 

Give it some time. You have a growth spurt coming and you have a nice looking face. Those sites are demented..don't listen to that nonsense. People are unrealistically harsh on there because they're hiding behind a computer screen and they can get all their meanness out without any repercussions.

 

Trust me. He was being sarcastic.

[R3d]

Fine, replace "beliefs" with "opinions" in that post. The point is the same.

 

The general opinion here is that leagues exist.

 

And KaliLove, how do I know you are not just saying that to pacify me?

Edited June 15, 2014 by R3d

[Bruce Leigh]

Fine, replace "beliefs" with "opinions" in that post. The point is the same.

 

The general opinion here is that leagues exist.

 

Opinions are flexible and can change, beliefs are far more rigid and less likely to change.

 

But that is only my opinion.

[KaliLove]

Fine, replace "beliefs" with "opinions" in that post. The point is the same.

 

The general opinion here is that leagues exist.

 

And KaliLove, how do I know you are not just saying that to pacify me?

 

Why would I give a sh*t about pacifying you? You can ask pretty much anyone who's ever spoken to me on LS..I am nothing if not honest.

[organizedchaos]

I am sorry. It is just that a lot of other forums and YouTube guys say looks do not matter as much and it's very possible to get a girl out of your league. This forum seems to think otherwise...

 

I read and watch stuff there and feel better. But when I come and read stuff here, I get pissed and start self-loathing again. Because this forum seems to believe in leagues which is quite unique actually. Most other forums don't...at least not as much.

 

I don't know which to believe. This place or the other guys/forums who say leagues don't exist? It is frustrating when you are getting mixed information. Which do I believe? Of course you guys will say to believe you, but that's your bias...

 

Are you reading pua forums?

 

The guys who can date out of their leagues are generally older than you, have more experience than you, are more confident than you.

 

Yes, it's possible, just not for you

 

Live a little, get more experience in life, and stop obsessing over this at your age.

[R3d]

Opinions are flexible and can change, beliefs are far more rigid and less likely to change.

 

But that is only my opinion.

 

Okay, but you still haven't actually responded to the heart of that post.

 

There's a considerable chance that these opinions here about leagues are actually true given a lot of people preach them in In Search Of..., which if they are, I am ****ed.

[organizedchaos]

I already did in another thread. My facial aesthetics were rated at 3-4 the most on girlsaskguys.com polls. Then because I am shorter than 5'8, I have to halve my score...

 

I have a picture on my profile page. Go check it out...

 

And I don't think he was being sarcastic.

 

Dude, you are not a 2. You are not a troll. Your problem is not your height it's your attitude and lack of experience. I can see as you get older and more mature your facial features will get more defined. Just chill out man. You're still just a kid.

[R3d]

Are you reading pua forums?

 

The guys who can date out of their leagues are generally older than you, have more experience than you, are more confident than you.

 

Yes, it's possible, just not for you

 

Live a little, get more experience in life, and stop obsessing over this at your age.

 

One of them was yes.

 

I am not actually hunting for a girlfriend at the moment as I said a while ago, but I still continue to worry about my place in the dating world. Just because I am not actually actively going for girls NOW, doesn't mean I don't have plans to in the (near) future. The only reason I am holding off right now is because next school year, I want to first focus on getting a better social foundation before I get back actively looking for a girlfriend again because I found out that high school is all social circle game.

[KaliLove]

Yup..high school sucks. I honestly don't know ANYONE who had an easy time in high school. Chill kid..you will be fine.

[R3d]

This thread explains two methods I used to arrive at a rating of 2/10. One was guesstimation based on another man's rating as a benchmark. The other was more precise employing the use of polls.

 

https://www.loveshack.org/forums/off-topic/personal-rants-confessions/481103-after-seeing-woman-rate-guy-6-10-a

[KaliLove]

Stop comparing yourself to random male models!!! Geez..are you this shallow and self-conscious in person? Because honestly, that's probably why you're not attracting any girls.

[R3d]

Nah, I'd say it was that I was a socially awkward faggot half of the time (you should read page 2 of that thread in which I describe how I do quite like myself person-wise) and the other half of the time, the girl ignored me right after I approached and greeted her.

[KaliLove]

Well you continue to shoot down everyone's helpful suggestions time and time again..so obviously you don't actually want to change anything. You just want to whine about it and expect things to magically change for you overnight.

[BoringPerson]

You know i always get upset when woman say that being a short guy is the equivalant of a woman being fat. Or the a woman having a 'preference' of wanting tall guys is the same as a man having preference of wanting a slim and not a fat girl.

 

Newsflash: Short men cant change being short. Women can change being obese, they can diet and do exercise. You are just saying thins to not try sounding shallow, but you are.

 

And remember the 'woman movement' and feminism has made it ok for women to be a few kgs over weight or even fat. There is the whole fat acceptance thing and there are even fat female models. Funny how there is no such thing for fat males and its ok for females to make fun of fat males but men cant do the same for fat females....

 

How would females feel (and how would society react) if men started saying that they had a preference for women with big breasts or women with big asses, and that women with small breasts/no breasts and no assess were not attractive or, a more extreme view: they were not 'real women'. Not very nice is it?

[nightrain]

Well I'm 5'9" and height is of no concern to me as I've been with a short guy before. I'm little shallow with other preferences, but I could careless about height.

[Glinda.Good]

Implying that the Loveshack's community's beliefs about leagues are false...

 

I don't know if they are or not, which means there's a considerable chance they are NOT, nd if they are not, then I am ****ed.

 

They are not false, per se, but they only exist for those who believe in them. Kind of like organized religion.

 

Quit worrying about comparing yourself with other people, that's bogus.