hurting so bad Posted July 18, 2004 Share Posted July 18, 2004 Has anyone had this happen to them? You break up with someone because it is just not working out; you get mad about problems in the relationship etc so you break up Then you date someone new and at first it seems better but then little by little you just realize they are not the same as your ex. You realize that all the things you thought were wrong with your ex, were really not problems, but it was just you being so used to them that you forgot how great they really were, so you picked on stupid things. People say to try dating again to try to move on, but why is it that dating someone new really makes you remember the ex and miss them SO MUCH MORE? I always thought dating someone new would make it easier to move on, but why does it seem to make me miss the ex MORE??? Link to post Share on other sites
ready2moveon26 Posted July 18, 2004 Share Posted July 18, 2004 I completely agree with you! I feel the exact same way! Link to post Share on other sites
jw32802 Posted July 18, 2004 Share Posted July 18, 2004 Really?? In what way, what is your story? Link to post Share on other sites
ready2moveon26 Posted July 18, 2004 Share Posted July 18, 2004 I still love my husband. We have been seperated this time for a little over four months. We talk everyday and he has returned to the man I married, but he is with a 19 year old little girl that he says really gets on his nerves and takes his car a lot. Every person I meet I compare to my husband and my husband wins. So when I'm with someone, I find one little thing about them that is completely different from my husband and it gets on my nerves so badly that I can't stand to be around them. Therefore, I miss my husband even more than I ever did. Whenever I come home from a date, I get the urge to call my husband or hope that he has called so I can call him back. Here is a something I posted a few days ago...I have other posts as well if you'd like to read them...just go to search and type in ready2moveon26 I just can't move on! My husband and I have been seperated for a little over 4 months. We've been through all of the emotions several times and I just can't seem to let go. I love him. I did go to a lawyer because that is what he claimed he wanted and I thought it was what I wanted when he was being an ass. Lately, he's been very nice to me. He talks to me on the phone for hours and we laugh and joke around. We have a three year old daughter, so we see one another once a week. He's hugged me several times in the last few weeks, but tonight I asked him if he'd be going to his cousin's wedding later this month, (we got seperate invitations) and he said he was. I asked him if he'd be bringing anyone and he said he was bringing his girlfriend. I've know about her since they started seeing one another but I thought it was just a fling or something. She is YOUNG! I told him I wasn't going to the wedding then. He said, "Don't be like that." I don't know how he wants me to be. This 19 year old little girl has stolen my life from me and I do not like her one bit! I don't know her but she has what I had and I want it back! How do I move on? Do I move on? What do I do? Link to post Share on other sites
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