H not accepting friend request on FB

[Ninja'sHusband]

Logged and saved? I dont see an option for that in FB. Is it hidden?

I dunno if there's an option. If you go through your messages though you will see whole chat conversations in your message history.

[2sure]

He will friend you, promise. Create a fake page using a fake name and a fake picture and make it private. Then send him a friend request. If he is trolling, , he will friend you. Then you will probably be able to see all of the friends he has hidden from you.

 

We do it at work.

[JamesM]

That's true James but you cant see each others private email so just because you and I can see our wives FB postings doesnt mean we can read what was sent to them privately.

 

I think its ironic that my own Wife asked me to delete all single females off my FB page before we got married and now she has something like 90 people on hers with tons of single guys. I try not to let that bother me but it is kind of hypocritical.

 

Anyway, sorry for the thread hijack.

 

True, but I also can log onto her FB page if I wanted. And I think she still knows my password as well.

 

That was my point earlier. Why he would not friend her when he could still hide messages makes me think he has something more to hide...like posts on his page or who he is posting to. I can post and hide it from selected friends if I want. I guess if his wife is his friend then he can no longer be "free."

 

OP, this is all surmising and speculation. Don't get too worked up unless you have something more.

 

But again, it could be his way of drawing a line of privacy.

[2sure]

He will friend you, promise. Create a fake page using a fake name and a fake picture and make it private. Then send him a friend request. If he is trolling, , he will friend you. Then you will probably be able to see all of the friends he has hidden from you.

 

We do it at work.

 

Clearly however...this is not healthy.

[g450]

I dunno if there's an option. If you go through your messages though you will see whole chat conversations in your message history.

 

Yeah I know that. My point is that I cant see HER messages and vice versa. Which means you could be looking at your wifes FB page as her H or Friend and she could still be using FB messaging to have an affair. It's all invisible.

 

I do know her FB password but I dont snoop her messages. And even if I did do that she has a tendancey to delete stuff. Especially on her cell phone so the point is moot. I do trust her but I am uncomfortable that she thinks she can have all these single guys on her FB page while at the same time criticize me if I have one single woman on mine. But its not work arguing over.