janeyarrafie Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 ok, recently I met this guy at my workplace. He's a very very nice person even every single person who works there agrees. He's always staring at me, and when I say staring I mean like he looks deep into my eyes. He's always calling me pretty or like beauty some like that(but he calls every female employees that as well)...that day he was trying to teach me how to dance salsa, and so he was trying to make me less stiff and so he kinda grab my waist in order to make me more flexible and when the moment he touched my waist, I can feel that his hands kinda joulted a little bit( I know it's odd)...Also, he's always helping me when he's done with his work. In addition, he's about 10-15 years older than me and is married with 3 daughters( I know it's not right but the thing is his wife and daughters live in another country and he hasn't seen them for 3 years already besides videos and pictures from them). But my major concern is whether or not he likes me and if I should like him and also, there's another mexican lady who works there that I suspect who likes him too. I'm not sure if this guy likes her, but I hope not. I am very very confused now, Please Help!!!!! Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
uriel Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 You're asking for trouble fooling around -- or looking to -- with a married man at work. It doesn't matter whether his wife is in another country with their children or not. It doesn't matter whether he'd like to bed you or not. If you take this further, you will regret it. Look for a single man to pursue, someone not in your office. Instead of testing the waters, why don't you go around asking people who've had affairs or given in to office romances like this tell you what happened to them? That ought to give you a cold splash of reality. Go any further, and you'll get what you deserve. -- uriel Link to post Share on other sites
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