sandy54 Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 My new girl friend of six months now enjoys skinny dipping and partying nude in hot tubs with other guys. She recently told me of an experience she had with another girl in a hot tub while in the lap of a some guy...am I crazy or should dump her and move on? Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 Unless you are into sharing your girl with other guys, move on. She's not ready for a committed relationship. She sounds like fun, but she doesn't sound like a girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
MichiganMan222 Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 Does she do this when you're not around? I would never tolerate that. I'd find someone new before you get too invested and profoundly hurt. Hot-tub skinny dipping is generally accompanied by lots of alcohol. Not a good combo for the poor schmuck left at home. Is she up for guidelines? My wife likes to get crazy once in awhile, but we have set some boundaries. • She can only show-off her body when I'm in the room. • Only when at least one other woman is doing the same thing. • Absolutely no touching. Now I can't control her as she is a free adult American woman that can do whatever the hell she pleases in this life. But so can I and if those guidelines are broken, then as far as I'm concerned, our relationship would be instantly transformed into an open relationship and I don't do open relationships. I would exercise my freedom and begin the divorce process. She's a good girl and we have a great relationship and she is more than happy to keep me by respecting my wishes. If your girl doesn't do this, I would start the 'paperwork'. Link to post Share on other sites
Madman81 Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 My new girl friend of six months now enjoys skinny dipping and partying nude in hot tubs with other guys. She recently told me of an experience she had with another girl in a hot tub while in the lap of a some guy...am I crazy or should dump her and move on? Has she had any of these experiences in the last six months? You said she recently told you about her experience with the other girl, but does that mean it happened recently? And without you present? Michigan's right, you can't control her or tell her what to do. But you have the absolute freedom to make decisions about the kind of person YOU want to be in a relationship with. If you're okay with what she does, then no problem. But if you're not okay with it, that's pretty reasonable. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 My new girl friend of six months now enjoys skinny dipping and partying nude in hot tubs with other guys. She recently told me of an experience she had with another girl in a hot tub while in the lap of a some guy...am I crazy or should dump her and move on? yes she is bad news Link to post Share on other sites
strongnrelaxed Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 ...am I crazy or should dump her and move on? You are not crazy. A young woman like this can lift your spirits, get you out of your comfort zone and provide you with a lifetime of great memories. Why would you want to move on? If you think of her as LT relationship material, then yes, you ARE crazy. Don't judge her or try to hold her back. Enjoy her wild side, and join in with her - to the degree you are comfortable. You will have a good life experience with her and remember her fondly forever. These are the times you will look back on when you are old and sitting in a rocking chair as your teenage virgin grandson teases you playfully you for being boring/old/unhip. You can sit back and smile at him and wish wonderful things for him too. I don't think this needs to be said, but I will anyway - NEVER, and I mean NEVER mention this woman to any future girlfriend. If you do, you will suffer the consequences. You have been warned. Some things are meant to be locked away in our memories to be cherished when the mood hits. Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 My new girl friend of six months now enjoys skinny dipping and partying nude in hot tubs with other guys. She recently told me of an experience she had with another girl in a hot tub while in the lap of a some guy...am I crazy or should dump her and move on? Am I correct to assume she has done this within these past six months or was it before you started dating her? Did she do this when you were present? Not enough info. Though what little you said dump her. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 I smell.....yep! troll... Link to post Share on other sites
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