DPM Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 I have been in a relationship for several years with a woman who is technically married. She has done everything possible exept get a divorce. She is having a hard time because she is to worried about what others think. Her marriage was bad for a long time and the problems were ignored. During her hard times we became very good friends. We were there for each other during desparate times. After 8 months of separation her husband decided he was moving back. Well its been over 3 years now. Our relationship has been tested in everyway and remains strong. I was told today that she does not want to be a person who gets a divorce because of another person and she feel real quilty of the way it has panned out. She believes our relationship is making her feel so quilty she can not go through with the divorce. I don;t know what I should do. She is my best friend along as the person I love with all my heart. I kills me to see her in so much pain. Link to post Share on other sites
StartingAgain Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 DPM, I feel for you. But she's made her choice and all you can do now is back off and let her and her husband work on their marriage. This is the reason why getting too involved with someone who is still married can cause a lot of pain. Just take it easy and work through your own grief. She will have to deal with hers on her own, or with her husband's help. Link to post Share on other sites
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