clia Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 Here's the thing: He is 37. You are 16. Note the age difference. Why isn't he chatting with women his own age? Hmmm...could it be because he's creepy and they all ignore him because of that? Hmmm...could it be because you are much easier to manipulate? Hmmm...could it be because he is looking for a green card someday? Hmmm...could it be ... well, whatever. I still think it's creepy for you to be chatting with a man 21 years older than you, at the age of 16. And I'm quite positive your parents would agree.
Author crazy_rikan Posted July 25, 2004 Author Posted July 25, 2004 i have stopped the friendship with him for a week now, and i explained to him part of my reason. he is upset about it, and so was i , but i reallized that i need to do that for myself. and im not leaving him cuz of he's age, im leaving him cuz i cant depend on nobody. we still talk but the only thing we say is HI and BYE. yeah everything its very weird and even more that i dont call him no more. do you think that maybe later on i should have a different kind of friendship no feelings like that with him? well anyways, i would still want him to be part of my life not as strong as before, but he still chaged my life. one thing that i have straight in my mind its, that if i do ever be friend with him again im not going to mix emotions and im not going to pass the line between friends and something else.
tiki Posted July 25, 2004 Posted July 25, 2004 I think it says a lot about you for taking that step. You have to be one smart girl. Take one day at a time...you may have no interest in him next year.
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