aljo1 Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 I have to admit that I'm kind of shy making eye contact with a girl--because I'm nearsighted and don't wear glasses a lot(very rarely). My question to you girls is how iportant is this?? If I'm talking about something fun and stuff, do you really care if I'm looking you straight in the eyes or not as much? I know that at the same time,I'm giving some shyness or insecereness clues to her by not looking at hereyes for a while, but at the same time because of my condition i don't have to much to look at!! I mostly look a her mouth when she's talking--and when I talk I look at her whole face. Again, how important is eye contact? Link to post Share on other sites
phi3587 Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 I may not be a girl, but I know from experience that eye contact is extremely important. If you don't make eye contact with a girl, she might not like you. Sorry, that's the best I can give you. It's a skill that you have to master. Even if two people of the same sex engaged in a conversation, eye contact is crucial. Basically, when I'm talking to anybody, I would want them to look at me. We all do. Link to post Share on other sites
engravefeelthevoid Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 guess what! I want the answer to this question too,while youre holding a conversation,how long should the longest eye contact period last?,personally i look at ones mouth while he s talking and everytime i think of it i look like a fool, you girls must know,cuz its obvious that its important... Link to post Share on other sites
phi3587 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 Look them in the eyes, but don't glare! Scan around their face. It can make people uncomfortable if you look them without scanning. Link to post Share on other sites
blue17 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 some people make these simple things into a big chore....i never really analyzed how I look into the other persons eyes. Just look at them for a bit maybe then glance somewhere else....and repeat. it's really not that tough. Link to post Share on other sites
Tkay Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Originally posted by blue17 some people make these simple things into a big chore....i never really analyzed how I look into the other persons eyes. Just look at them for a bit maybe then glance somewhere else....and repeat. it's really not that tough. I look in someones eyes until i feel uncomfortable then look away & repeat Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Ok i'm a girl let me tell you about eye contact. Eye contact really depends on the girl sometimes. I love eye contact. So many things can be said through I contact in the matter of seconds. Eye contact shows confidence, it shows your intrested in the girl and what she has to say, and it can be such a turn on. I love when I'm talking to a guy and he's looking directly in my eyes. You just feel more connected. Then again too much eye contact can make a girl uncomfortable. I say give her a little eye contact. Don't be shy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aljo1 Posted July 24, 2004 Author Share Posted July 24, 2004 Hey blackmirage1, we have so mch in common!!! I also loo at a girl's mouth the most when she's talking--maybe that's why I don't care so much about beautiful eyes(eye color and stuff)as I do with beautiful mouths. anyways, I'll have to practice the eye contact a little more to show more confidence and at the same time to have it. Link to post Share on other sites
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