Does she like me?

[StaticFury]

There is this girl who usually hangs out with me and my friends. At first I liked her we got along pretty well, but I chose not to ask her out because I thought it would make it different when we hang out with our friends.

 

Then me, her and a few friends had camped out. Me and her were in a room watching a movie together. We had gotten pretty close, I had my arm around her. My hand was on her thigh, and I am actually not use to situations like that. So I was kind of rubbing her side with my thumb as well. She stayed quiet and smiled while we watched the movie "Ted".

 

We had never really had an encounter like that, it was very sudden for me. I asked her if she was uncomfortable, she said no so I continued to hold my arm around her.

 

Then we had gotten tired, so we wanted to sleep, she turned over. I had the idea to put my arm around her and cuddle. She said she was not uncomfortable but she was pretty quiet. I had a friend walk in and was like "woah, what are you to up to?" cock blocking all I can say.

 

Later on thanks to the cock blocking we ended up sleeping separately me on floor her on bed with friends around. She didn't act disappointing or anything.

 

My friend told me about her and said, she didn't see me that way, but it confuses me to think that we would get as close to cuddling like we were. But another friend said women might accept it not to make me feel uncomfortable or unhappy.

 

I actually do want to ask her out but I am curious as to what happened that night. Could anyone tell me if she could have actually liked it a lot, she did fall asleep on my chest for a few minutes. Or any signs that could have meant discomfort that I might have missed?

 

Yes i know it's a lot of reading but thank you for help

Edited September 3, 2012 by StaticFury

[meeji]

Hmm. this situation could go either way. one the one hand, she might be shy or confused about her own feelings even.She might have been uncomfortable but sucked it up, like your friends said just to appease you. If your friends are saying that girl doesn't think of you in that way, maybe she told them that and they are trying to spare you. Did you ask why they think that or where that information came from? Maybe she was comfortable because she knew that you wouldn't take it further because you respect her boundaries. She might have you in the friend zone. Sometimes, girls can be more affectionate or flirty and it means nothing.

 

The best advice I can give is ask her directly. Only she knows how she feels and what her actions mean.