spaniard Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 So. It has been 1.5 months since we haven't talked at all. I guess our break up was pretty clean and mature -- I told her I still loved her, she said she had absolutely no feelings for me and that whole thing was dead for her. I don't wanna discuss the details here because it is a loooong story. In short: I still have no idea why her feelings died and I feel a little betrayed after what happened between us, but of course it doesn't matter anymore, I have to move on. That's what I've been working on. It has been an awfully tough road, sometimes I felt like garbage, but in the last 2 weeks I started to feel so much better. I'm an optimistic guy -- although I think she was very close to the girl of my dream (yuk), I'm pretty sure that I'll find better than her, who will even appreciate me. That's enough. So she writes me over facebook where we are not friend (I told her at the break-up that I'd delete her to make it easier for me to move on, she accepted it). You need to know that I had a knee injury a year ago so I couldn't do any sports for like 10 months. So she asks me if the medicine her mother ordered for me before the break-up worked. What-the-hell. I answered yes, it worked, I played football yesterday and I didn't feel any pain. I was nice but I wrote that message in a way that she understands that the conversation stops there. Geez. What was the point of this? I don't want anything from this girl anymore, I just want to move on and be happy. Link to post Share on other sites
GLDheart Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 It's nothing. She had a brief moment of nostalgia for some memory. Right after she sent you the message she went back to whatever her "new life" is and forgot all about you again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author spaniard Posted September 4, 2012 Author Share Posted September 4, 2012 Well, I hope you're right. I don't want her to text me again, it just slows down my healing process. Link to post Share on other sites
GLDheart Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 After a few of these breadcrumbs she may want to "meet to catch up". That will be your next kick in the balls. This stuff follows a pattern. Link to post Share on other sites
Author spaniard Posted September 5, 2012 Author Share Posted September 5, 2012 Breadcrumbs, haha, how true! Well, I wouldn't meet her for the world. We live in the same town practically (although I'm only at home at the weekends) and I have already drawn "danger zones" that I must avoid all the time, so I can ensure we never meet again Link to post Share on other sites
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