memyselfi Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Been connected again with ex bf after 8months, its like feeling is still there but I know for myself that I only wanted to be friends, tho part of what happened before and pains has been said, but we're good. Have you been guys into this situation? Did u get back again or u stayed good friends? Link to post Share on other sites
lunat1ccc Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 If you guys ended on good terms, and you both had enough time apart to not have feelings for each other, I think it's fine. But, if you ended on bad terms and you feel that the feelings are still strongly there, you shouldn't. Link to post Share on other sites
PepperPotts Posted September 8, 2012 Share Posted September 8, 2012 I generally agree with Luna, but I would also add: 1. Being friends only works if you both want to only be friends 2. Only you know if you can successfully avoid falling again, and if you're questioning it, that's a yellow flag. Take heed. 3. If either of you want to get back together and the other doesn't, this is a very bad idea as you're setting yourselves up for more drama and pain. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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