AbsolutJake Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 I had dated this girl for about a year and a half or longer. I made a lot of mistakes along the way, such as not thinking she was the one and taking a "break" from our relationship, which basically lasted for about a week or 2 at most and then wed get back together. This happened a fewe times, till the last time when i decided we really did need a break. I then thought i liked a friend of mine, for about 2 weeks is all, but nothing ever stemmed from it and i realized that my love for the past year and a half or so was what i really wanted. I have spent the last 2 and a half months trying to mend things back together. I however only made many failed attempts and when I was coming home for her birthday a week ago she informed me she liked somebody else and that she cant promise we will ever get back together. This guy definately doesnt have what she wants, but is something for her thats new right now. Shes 21 hes 28 with a kid and has a crummy job. I dont fear they will be together very long however she has lately been extremely rude and mean to me. The other day we hung out for about an hour and she was nice to me and said she missed me and hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. I thought things were good, but then i called her 3 days ago and she was with a friend of hers who has a total negative effect on her and she was a total bitch to me again. HELP!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 You'll just have to wait it out. You can't force someone to come back to you, and maybe she's tired of all the breaks you wanted to take and she's decided to move on to someone who's a bit more stable. If she said she missed you though, maybe she is thinking about coming back. But don't wait around forever. She might have made up her mind for sure this time. Talk to her about it when she's not with her friends, and if she tells you its really over, move on. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
jw32802 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 absolut jake I agree, I went thru this over and over where my ex would be so distant and then not distant and then distant and then not distant and i just couldnt take the roller coaster so i dumped him. Now why is it that you finally realized you loved her? What made youc hange your mind? How long did it take you from the time u broke up to realize this? Link to post Share on other sites
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