Let's talk about something happy...WHAT ARE YOUR SPOUSES BEST QUALITIES?

[supermom]

I wanted to post a happy thread in the marriage forum.

 

What are your spouses best qualities?

 

I would have to say:

 

1. He has given me a gift nobody has.....my daughter (or helped anyway )

2. He doesn't control me

3. Treats me like a buddy and a wife

4. Good looking

5. Talks to me instead of fights with me.

6. Actively helps with all aspects (including the dirty diapers) with our daughter.

 

and more.....

 

Anyway I wanted to see if this would be a good topic to discuss. I'm kinda down today and instead of wining I thought I would try this approach.

[ladyangel]

What a great thread! Thanks.

 

Some of my spouse's best qualities:

 

1) Great sense of humor

2) Very committed to the marriage

3) Helpful around the house (without complaining)

4) Still calls me "hon" and "sweetie."

5) Always ready to give me a hug when I need/want one

6) Loves kids and dogs as much as I do

[Moose]

Good Thread!!! I'm a little upset that more aren't posting.....My Spouse's best qualities? Are we sur we have enough room????!!!!

 

1. The many ways she expresses her love and respect to me:

a. Wakes me up with a kiss and hot coffee.

b. On my days off, leaves me alone and keeps the kids quite until I get up, then it's eggs and bacon, YUM!!

c. How she makes sure I eat a healthy lunch and 3 course meals for supper.....WITHOUT fail.

d. Makes sure I take all my meds for my heart and Parkinson's.

e. Monitors my BP religously.

 

2. Very, VERY, sexy, model material, and still wants to grow old with this skinny almost bald man.

 

3. Very fun. Says she has to be or she'd go insane, ( We have 5 kids ).

 

4. As soon as I walk in the from work, she meets me at the door and we embrace for a good 20 or 30 seconds.

 

5. Excellent cook.

 

6. Keeps the kids in line.

 

7. Has been my best friend for almost 20 years.

 

Man, I could go on forever.....but you get the hint. Thanks for a positive Thread!!!

 

Moose

[EC]

Oh man the list would be too long and would have to be updated frequently.

[VivianLee]

These have been so uplifting and sweet (Moose, I'm so very sorry about the Parkinson!! )

 

My husband has the sweetest, kindest and most gorgeous eyes, that is what got me the moment I met him!!

 

He is very tenderhearted and kind.

 

Very eloquent and intelligent.

 

He's an awesome speaker!

 

He has the most hilarious sense of humor (keeps me laughing all the time)

 

He can show such love and adoration towards me.

 

He is romanctic.

 

He is thoughtful.

 

He is giving.

 

He can make me feel so special.

 

He loves to see me happy!

 

He drop dead gorgeous!

 

He's a good friend to me, always has been...

 

There's more but it would take too long!!

[arfunkel3]

This is a great topic! I think all of us needs to think about the positive qualities of our significant others sometimes.

Some of my spouse's great qualities are as follows:

 

1. Always supportive and encouraging

2. Treats me with respect and dignity

3. Is the first one to help or offer to help anyone in trouble

4. Dependable

5. Quirky sense of humor

6. Great friend and lover

7. Is just an all around great person

8. Etc, Etc, Etc.....

 

Thanks for posting your suggestion. Just thinking about my sweetie makes me smile...

[Moose]

I just wanted to say thanks to Vivian. And to Arfunkel, I was smiling the whole time too.....

[Karen035]

Its nice to see people have postive things to say about their spouses. This is a great post and helps us to remember all the great qualities of our Loves.

I have a book to list, my spouse is great and I love him very much!!

 

1. he tells me he loves me everyday with a kiss!!

 

2. Helps me with all household chores.

 

3. Good laughs together always ( very humorous and always in a good mood)

 

4. Makes the bed everyday.

 

5. Does the dishes after I cook dinner.

 

6. Loves to cuddle on the couch with me in the evening while we watch tv.

 

7. When it is very hot outside, he does not want me to cook in a hot kitchen so we go out to dinner.

 

8. Still opens the car door for me!! ( after 5 yrs of marriage)

 

9. rubs my back and strokes my hair and face while watching tv.

 

Its all the little things he does that I notice most and I love him for it ! The list is endless

[HokeyReligions]

I'm thinking, I'm thinking..........

[CurlyIam]

Wow, that's an easy one! How am I to say this...

 

I am NOT married, people!!!!!!!!!!

 

[supermom]

Thanks for replying all..I thought I could bring some sunshine to these boards.

 

I love my husband...and when he pisses me off I just think of the good qualities he has and it makes it all betterf:)

[miz_barby]

Hahaha! Okay I like this post...my Bf's best qualities (he has a lot but I'll list a few)

 

1) he is brutally honest

 

2) he has the most sexy smile I've ever seen!!

 

3) His bright brown eyes are so warm I feel like he melts me everytime he turns em my way

 

4) He listens to what I have to say (no matter how major or minor)

 

5) he is very very good looking

 

6) the fact that he's a great great latin lover!!

 

7) I love the way he makes me feel like no one compares to me in his eyes *no matter how beautiful, thin, ect they are.

 

Okay I could go on and on and never run outta things to say about him! What can I say I'm hopelessy in LOVE with my handsome sweety!

[HokeyReligions]

Oooh! Oooh! I've got one: He does the grocery shopping every week! That's a 'quality' isn't it? LOL!

[ladyangel]

Originally posted by HokeyReligions

Oooh! Oooh! I've got one: He does the grocery shopping every week! That's a 'quality' isn't it? LOL!

Well heck yeah! I think it would fall under the category of helpful.

[HokeyReligions]

Originally posted by ladyangel

Well heck yeah! I think it would fall under the category of helpful.

 

tee hee! I wouldn't go so far as to actually call my husband 'helpful'. Lol!

If I said that, his head would get even bigger and I'd never get him to do AnyThing! LOL!

 

He's already proud of the fact he dials the phone and tells the lawn service when they need to mow the lawn!

[Karlise13]

Well, we are monogamous cohabiters, which is the same as being married, pretty much....

 

 

 

My BF...

 

* Is very genuine. What you see is what you get.

 

* He is an excellent listener

 

* He really works at our relationship

 

* He is a great lover

 

* He has a value system I really respect

 

* He treats people well

 

* He is gregarious and warm

 

* He has a really sick, twisted sense of humour

 

* He can have a great time, just doing simple things like swimming in the lake with our dogs. He really enjoys life and I just love that about him.

 

* He has beautiful green eyes

 

* He has a GREAT ASS

 

* Need I say more????

[Caroli]

It’s so nice be talking about something good. Some of my boyfriend qualities:

 

- He trusts me. Even when everything was saying that I was not being honest with him he believed me.

- He is learning Spanish (that was his idea) in order to have a better relationship with my family and making me feel more at “home”.

- He talks to me about every thing that we don’t agree.

- He cares about the people.

- He laughs most of the time and he has a good sense of humor.

- He does the dishes after the dinner.

- He enjoys doing simple things: walking in the middle of a winter night, watching a movie for 10th time…

- He has a really nice butt…

- His eyes are the sweetest and most beautiful green eyes that I have ever seen.

[HokeyReligions]

I thought of another one!

 

He's maleable! (good for me, bad for him!)

[supermom]

Last night my husband saw this thread and it made him feel very good

 

He said "aw honey your so sweet"

 

[Fayebelle]

Caring, understanding, intellegent, sexy, SO FUNNY, protective, helpful, attentive, creative, athletic, independant, ambitious, friendly, family-oriented......

 

he also thinks I am the most fabulous creature he has ever encountered and treats me accordingly. Knowing that will get you thru any day.

[HokeyReligions]

Hubby's Good Qualities -- From the time we met to our 3rd wedding anniversary (5 years together)*Fabulous sense of humor

*Tender and loving

*Always thinking of me and trying to anticipate my needs/wants

*Loved to surprise me with gifts

*Good Dad

*Optimistic

*Tried to be a good provider, worked or worked at finding work

*Romantic

 

 

Hubby's Good Qualities -- Beginning with the 4th year of marriage until the 8th anniversary.

*Decent sense of humor

*Good Dad

*Did some errands/chores without being asked or told to five times

*Worked sometimes

*Encouraged me in finding a higher paying job

 

 

Hubby's Good Qualities -- From the 9th year of marriage to the 15th anniversary.

*Laughs sometimes

*Established routine (does grocery shopping, runs errands during the day)

*Went back to college so he could find work (never did)

 

Hubby's Good Qualities -- From the 16th year to now (over 20 years together)

*Established routines (this is more accurate than labeling him as 'helpful')

*Stays out of my way 90% of the time

[Fayebelle]

:lmao:

[ShareHer]

I did.

[Fayebelle]

Is that a reply to my signature?

[tiki]

My fiance will have to do as my 'spouse' in this thread...

 

 

I love his sensitivity.

His constant admiration for me. He acts as if he adores me.

His want to constanly make me the happiest woman alive.

 

God I love that man.