emorocker26 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 [color=darkblue][/color] hey,....this is my first time on this site.....im writing just because i have this one problem,....theres this one girl,...i met her last summer...maybe a year from now,.. right away we fell for each other,....we werent really going out,...more just hooking up,....but what we had was great,....so as school started again we didnt really talk as much,,....we didnt get to see each other as much,...we kind of went our own ways,....then summer was almost near and then we started talking to each other online,....mostly thruogh email, but also through AIM,...we were both wanting to be with each other ...so we started talking about gettin back together and seeing each other soon,....then i went away for the first week of summer vacation,...when i got back i was talking to her online but she didnt sound the same,...i had found out from one of her friends that she had met a guy,....i was still determined to get her back,...so i knew of a party she was going to one night, so i went with a buddy of mine,...i got there and she was so excited to see me and she jumped on me and hugged me....so there also inside was the guy she met,...so obviously she didnt really want to do anything with me that night,...but she didnt do anything with him either ,....and so the next day i call her and tell her i still have feelings for her and i tell her she is so amazing and i wanna be with her, and she didnt say much,...she didnt even mention anything aboutt the guy she met,.....so i would call her a couple of times a week,...to say hi or jes to let her know i was still constantly thinkin of her,..most of the time she would say she was busy or she had to go,...she even had her friends pick up the phone for her and tell me she wasnt there ,....so now i havent really bothered her anymore,...i have tried not talking to her on the phone or online,...jes trying to forget about her but i cant,....i still am determined to be with her,....if anyone has any advice on what i should do, i would appreciate it....thanx a bunch Link to post Share on other sites
Fetish 2 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 Sorry to break it to you, however I think you have already realised it, but it seems like she is not interested anymore. Or maybe she like hooking up with you and didnt ever intend to take that relationship any further. My advice is that you try to move on and meet other girls. Don't continue pursuing this girl as you will annoy her even more and destroy any chance of a friendship later on even. Goodluck meeting other girls Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 She's definitely not interested any longer. However, it was wrong of her not to come right out and say it. Getting her friends to pick up the phone and lie for her is immature and would only push you to try harder, which is why I never understand it when girls will do such things. If she was trying to spare your feelings (which never works for the best), she certainly succeeded in just hurting you more. I'd forget about her and move on. She doesn't have the decency to tell you up front that you have no chance of being with her, but I hope that now you have gotten the idea. You mention that you haven't tried to talk to her, which is good. Don't talk to her, don't try to talk to her, and just move on with your life. You'll meet someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
beth1.8T Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 i think that is pretty immature for her to have her friends pick up the phone to lie for her. but i dont think is interested. sorry kid. maybe she still likes you as a friend and does not want to tell you because she thinks this will make things fall downhill. i say you should just stop calling. and maybe soon she will want you and call you. just do not stoop to her level and have your friends pick up and say you arent there...i mean seriously. some kids need to grow up. good luck!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
StartingAgain Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 Uh, friend, you were just some temporary bootie. She had her fun and moved on to the next stud in line. Nothing in the world wrong with that except that you obviously want a little more. Chaulk it up to a good time you had and move on. Most of us have had at least a few experiences like this and it doesn't take long to learn that you won't always have any sort of relationship with someone just because you hooked up for sex a few times. After a time or two, you come to recognize the dynamic and just go with the flow with no expectations. Link to post Share on other sites
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