domple Posted September 6, 2012 Share Posted September 6, 2012 Hey Everyone, * I have been dating this girl for a few months and a week ago she broke down and went off the deep end, saying things like I want you but I’m afraid of you, I want you close but far away. I was like what in the world. Through talking with her I discovered that she was in a very abusive relationship almost 7 years ago and was beaten ever day amongst other things. We nearly broke up that day as she was saying some really wacked out things. * Anyway turns out that she always had this niggling feeling (fear of commitment due to this abusive relationship) but said that it didn’t stop her from being with me until now. You see she went to hospital a month before due to her ovaries and the doctors have put her on some crazy hormone and prescribed her with med which were too strong for her. She went from a size B to a D cup in 2 weeks (not weight just her breasts so I know she was overmedicated). * So she has dramatically stopped the hormones and meds and is feeling better but is confused . She told me she still feels the same and wants to be with me. She also said that she hates feeling like this because she does want a future with me and kids and the package and said she hates this stupid feeling holding her back. She has already booked in a* physiologist and we are meeting up for the first time since last week on Sunday. We both want to see each and had talked about meeting a couple of times during the week but stuff kept getting in the way (ironically bad timing). * I asked her last night how she felt about me and said she doesn’t know in the sense that she is feeling better but was so doped up last week she’s not sure what to think. She also said to give her time as she hates this and wants to be with me, so in a sense that is reassuring. * If anyone has been through this or recommends anything for me or for her to read that would be great. This is the first girl who proactively said I want to spend my life with you and kids and the whole package. Link to post Share on other sites
Author domple Posted September 6, 2012 Author Share Posted September 6, 2012 Also to add when it comes to problems she tends to solve them but keeps it to herself. So it's been hard as she doesn't want to talk about it. Again this is by her nature but not nescerially this issue Link to post Share on other sites
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