Blakdad Posted September 8, 2012 Share Posted September 8, 2012 I am a black guy.I adore women regardless of race. I have kids by an ex-wife and ex-girlfriend-both African American. For many years now,I have had this strong urge to have a baby or two by a non-black woman.I have been thinking about this since 1996 when my marriage ended.However,I have never found a non-black woman willing to go along with my desire.I dont think much is wrong with me,just havent had a chance or had wrong chances. For a minute,I wondered what my two older daughters will think and held back,since I was a single parent.Finally I got blessed with two kids by another lady and that relationship fizzled . That has made my urge to try something different and new stronger; because now,I have another chance. I am hoping someday to find a healthy professional lady who is unselfish,motherly,loving,honest,strongly deserving and desiring a kid;to have one or two with. The lady could be single,married(couple) or whatever.She just has to be a good mother.She can share the kid with me or raise it any good way she wants.Kids are expensive,am hoping she is economically stable. I am not in a relationship right now and am not planning to get married any time soon.I have joint custody of my younger kids.I am not hoping to destroy anybody's marriage.I just want to have a baby while I can or while she can and desire to. Since I will give a lady a baby for free and not bother her, if that is what she wants,I am cheaper than a sperm bank or an adoption agency. Don't say anything mean in response,be civilized.Imagine if she does not get this baby from me ,she will get it from someone else or some chain of fertility clinics somewhere. No shame here,all Blessings:) Just email me so we can get started. Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted September 9, 2012 Share Posted September 9, 2012 I feel that your priorities are a bit off. Impregnating a married women WOULD distroy their relationship. You have been blessed with wonderful children, leave it at that. Don't seek out some woman to be your human incubator. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kae Posted September 9, 2012 Share Posted September 9, 2012 so you want to have children but not play a role in their upbringing?? it doesnt sound totally unreasonable ..at least as a woman who doesnt love you but still has a desire to bear a child..however a fatherless child is a child who will forever have a yearning and a sense of insecurity. childrens emotional social and physical welfare can`t be paid for by a sole provider. kids NEED two loving parents. ALWAYS!!! Link to post Share on other sites
kae Posted September 9, 2012 Share Posted September 9, 2012 so you want to have children but not play a role in their upbringing?? it doesnt sound totally unreasonable ..at least as a woman who doesnt love you but still has a desire to bear a child..however a fatherless child is a child who will forever have a yearning and a sense of insecurity. childrens emotional social and physical welfare can`t be paid for by a sole provider. kids NEED two loving parents. ALWAYS!!! Dont be selfish man... Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted September 9, 2012 Share Posted September 9, 2012 sorry but this is classic troll material 6 Link to post Share on other sites
strongnrelaxed Posted September 9, 2012 Share Posted September 9, 2012 For many years now,I have had this strong urge to have a baby or two by a non-black woman.I have been thinking about this since 1996 when my marriage ended. Damn! I want babies with non-black women too! Although I would also have one with a black woman too. And on a train and in the rain, and in a box and with a...well you know...here and there and everywhere. Good luck on your quest of en"lightened" replication. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blakdad Posted September 9, 2012 Author Share Posted September 9, 2012 I feel that your priorities are a bit off. Impregnating a married women WOULD distroy their relationship. You have been blessed with wonderful children, leave it at that. Don't seek out some woman to be your human incubator. I am not necessarily looking for a human incubator,I cant make a guy pregnant! Also,there are millions of married women who cannot have a baby with their husbands for many reasons.One could be that the hubby is sterile or impotent or whatever.They may have talked and decided that they will seek a donor.Don't you think a(couple) woman like that will appreciate my help and offer? If they have a baby that they jointly desire,won't that help their relationship from untimely and unnecessary demise? There are women who dont want to be bothered with baby daddies and all that.They just want a baby to raise the way they feel fit.They can support the baby on their own.They may let a father see the baby once in a while.I am interested in someone like that also. If someone has a need for anything,they gonna find a way to fulfill that need no matter what. I appreciate your reply though and see your concerns as genuine:) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blakdad Posted September 10, 2012 Author Share Posted September 10, 2012 so you want to have children but not play a role in their upbringing?? it doesnt sound totally unreasonable ..at least as a woman who doesnt love you but still has a desire to bear a child..however a fatherless child is a child who will forever have a yearning and a sense of insecurity. childrens emotional social and physical welfare can`t be paid for by a sole provider. kids NEED two loving parents. ALWAYS!!! Dont be selfish man... Thanks for that thoughtful reply:) No selfishness here. I am actually trying to be unselfish by helping someone who has a want and need but may need external assistance(me) to fulfill that want or need. I have already left the door open that if they want to share raising the baby with me,am all in. But if not,I trust that she can do a good job since having a baby properly takes some good planning. if it's a couple,then you know that is an ideal situation. I agree with you that kids need two parents and thats why I may most likely choose someone willing to involve me somehow. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 10, 2012 Share Posted September 10, 2012 I am not necessarily looking for a human incubator,I cant make a guy pregnant! Also,there are millions of married women who cannot have a baby with their husbands for many reasons.One could be that the hubby is sterile or impotent or whatever.They may have talked and decided that they will seek a donor.Don't you think a(couple) woman like that will appreciate my help and offer? If they have a baby that they jointly desire,won't that help their relationship from untimely and unnecessary demise? There are women who dont want to be bothered with baby daddies and all that.They just want a baby to raise the way they feel fit.They can support the baby on their own.They may let a father see the baby once in a while.I am interested in someone like that also. If someone has a need for anything,they gonna find a way to fulfill that need no matter what. I appreciate your reply though and see your concerns as genuine:) Just go make a deposit in a sperm bank. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blakdad Posted September 10, 2012 Author Share Posted September 10, 2012 Just go make a deposit in a sperm bank. I just want to donate to a person/people I can talk to and get a feel of their situation.I want it to be more personal.I am not even thinking of a sperm bank as an option.Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 10, 2012 Share Posted September 10, 2012 Run an ad in the newspaper. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blakdad Posted September 10, 2012 Author Share Posted September 10, 2012 Run an ad in the newspaper. Can you give me a clue as to what newspaper?Explain what you mean please. Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted September 13, 2012 Share Posted September 13, 2012 What is this, the "casual encounters" section on craigslist? I have a feeling that his .I want it to be more personal.I am not even thinking of a sperm bank as an option.Sorry. personal donation is repeatedly in and out for 15 minutes or so. Take this cuckold thread and stuff it. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 13, 2012 Share Posted September 13, 2012 Can you give me a clue as to what newspaper?Explain what you mean please. No need for a paper. I am a petite, attractive white woman, with a great deal of experience and world-knowledge behind me. I will gladly bear your baby, but of course you will pay for it until such a time as it leaves full-time education. That includes everything it needs for its upbringing, including diapers, clothing, toys, home comforts, education, medical bills, dentistry, transport, any unforeseen expenses, and accommodation. 0 - 18. I can fit you in this coming weekend. 8 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blakdad Posted September 18, 2012 Author Share Posted September 18, 2012 No need for a paper. I am a petite, attractive white woman, with a great deal of experience and I can fit you in this coming weekend. Lol,I know..thats the scary part.But its true and very possible.Scares me sometimes.But am hoping to meet someone who would not do that. Tahnks for caring TaraMaiden:) Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 You obviously don't recognise Irony when you read it... I wasn't caring, I was challenging. I feel like walking in front of you with a bell and ringing it loud and long, all the while shouting - "Run! Run for the hills ladies, and don't look back!" Link to post Share on other sites
Sheridan1993 Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 Is it the desire to be with another race or do you honestly want to have a baby just so that you can say you have a biracial child.. Link to post Share on other sites
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