hurting so bad Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 Ok. it has been 2 weeks and 3 days since I last had contact w/ my ex. This is the longest we've gone w/ out talking, the longest has been 2 weeks. I do ok on some days and others not so good. Now question~ WHY is it that today seems like I am so much more ANXIETY than any other day? I thought it would get easier, but today i feel so much more anxiety, like that feeling of nervousness, that feeling of just not knowing. Why do i feel like this all of a sudden? Is it because I thought by now he would have missed me and he hasn't called so I am starting to really feel like he doesn't think of me and it's making me sad? Ahh, I just feel like I can't sit still, what is wrong w/ me? is this common going on week 3? Link to post Share on other sites
Wellnowuknow Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 Your hear a song, you see a picture, you smell something it all haunts us. I understand. You feel like how can he live without you when you are dying a slow death everday that passes without him. You feel your whole relationship that meant the world to you means nothing to him and you dont understand why. I would put my radio with all my slow jams and surround myself with all the pictures and have a nice long cry. Then I would lock it all up and be ok for a while and whenever I would get that anxiety day I would do it again and let it out. One day I pulled it out and smiled at all the pictures and songs and realized that there was life after him and thats what Im telling you. There is life after a breakup and you can even fall in love again!! I did!! The best thing to do is go out, hang out with friends and family family family. They cheer you up the most. They will always be there for you and you should cherish and spend time with them to take your mind off him. I know your hurting but time will heal everything. Trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
crstl33 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 i know your feeling. each day feels like it get hardier. you cant stop to wonder why, or what if. been there none that. sometimes you might need to let the other person know you still care. life gets easier as long as you want it too. just remeber out site * out of mind... true statement.... wish you the best of luck... Link to post Share on other sites
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