underwater2010 Posted September 13, 2012 Share Posted September 13, 2012 No most MM are not toxic. In fact they are great people that love their wife, raise the kids, support a household, mentor other children in sports and help take of their dying family members. What is toxic is an affair. It not only destroyes an innocent party member, but can destroyed a MM/MW. It makes a normally selfless person and turns them into liars. It can take hard earned respect and turn it into mistrust. Link to post Share on other sites
underwater2010 Posted September 13, 2012 Share Posted September 13, 2012 I'm having some issue with people determining that someone is "bad" or "good" bc of actions. Aren't we all just a mixture of both? Yes...everyone has a mixture of good and bad actions. I do not think I am a good person when I gossip. I mean, I can't even think of a person who I would consider innately "bad". I can think of many....serial killers, pedophiles, and rapists. Even murderers and child molesters usually have some humanity to them, and their actions are horrendous, but they are still people who are loveable, and loved by others. I do not understand how they could be considered lovable. Maybe by their mothers. I do not liken them to cheaters either. What murders and child molesters do is destroy innocent lives. The hurt they leave behind is felt for generations. And unlike an affair, the innocent rarely play apart in the actions that lead to the outcome. Please do not lump my WH or any WS into a catagory that includes murders and child molesters. Link to post Share on other sites
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