International threesome need some help, please!!!!!

[redhot7240]

Hey,

 

i have a question about two girls that I have recently meet, well its been about 4 months since we actually meet but now I'm back in the states until Aug. but you get the point. Both women I meet while studying in Europe one is from Austria ( Julia) very cute but young and she definitely doesn't want a long distant relationship. But she does want to keep in touch and when i say keep in touch I mean sexually. The fact of the matter is that I have been accepted to study in Europe for 4 years so she is really excite that we can see each other but not as a couple but as she puts it "great friends who see eachother often and have great sex".

Now the other woman (liza) is quite wonderfully also, although we never had sex or for that matter kissed we went out on many dates and had a terrific time together, she is a little older than julia and is more relationship ready in my opinion. We talked about it but she say she didn't want to get to close to me b/c I was leaving so soon which i can completely understand. This is before i was accepted!

Julia and i talk quite often emails, phone calls all of which end up being very sexual which is great. Liza is now studying in spain and we don't talk that often but when we do i really enjoy it but it not at a sexual level at all which is fine. But with liza when we were together we talk constantly a very electric connection, and the funny thing is she alway want to go out with me, not that i didn't want to but she would always call to make dates and hangout even just to go for a walk, so no I don't think it was just me who felt a connection.

Both women know that I date other people, I have been very honest b/c I have just recently been "dump" (but there are reason on bothside plus it was a LDR too, France USA) by my ex of 3 year who of course i'm still in love with but I'm really pushing forward with that. Right now the ex is in the past maybe someday we can be friend but for now I'm think about Julia and Liza more and more... ok now for my question; is this normal, I mean LDR are hardwork should i be put so much into this. Does Julia have the right idea just to have fun kind of a Big and Carrie thing off of sex in the city, is Liza just a girl i meet and should let it go or should i try to take your friendship farther and abandon my poor sexy Austrian..( Keep in mind i'm only 23 and i've just finished two degrees and have a great intern in Europe for the next 4 years but at the same time these girls are so wonderfully even the ex I want to keep some kind of relationship... Sounds naive huh?

 

Thanks for the advice

Kaunda

[Debster]

Depends on what you want - a FWB situation or a relationship?

[EC]

Wow you want to have your cake..eat it too..and then lick the pan.

 

I agree with the first post. You have to decide where you are in your life and if you want a serious relationship right now or just a sexual one with no strings attached?

 

Liza sounds like a keeper to me but I don't know either of them. Its very easy to find someone you connect with on a physical level. It's hard to find someone you can connect with though and have a good time with without having sex. The choice is up to you.

[shortbus74]

my eyes are going crazy!!!