confusedkristina Posted September 13, 2012 Share Posted September 13, 2012 I've known this guy for a few years, we've become really close friends as the years have gone by. We've always flirted, but one of us has always been in a relationship so nothing has ever really come out of all the flirting. Other friends have called us out on the flirting before and I've usually always responded with a "No, he's like my brother.", even though I knew deep down that wasn't necessarily true, but didn't really want anyone else to know. Over the last few months we've become increasingly flirty with each other now that we're both single. We'll send flirty texts back and forth, or leave flirty facebook messages. He left me one yesterday after we met up for lunch that said "You always put me in the best moods, chick". He really confused me this afternoon though. We were out with some friends and took some pictures. He posted them on facebook and under one of us together he put "Me and my sister". I don't know what the heck to think right now. SO confused! Link to post Share on other sites
Sw3etdev1L Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 To tell you the truth, this sounds too platonic right now. Like I don't know him, I wouldn't know how to interpret his words. What I do know is, that it is great for you to have contact with him. Even if he says "my sister", if he likes you he likes you but also he needs to get to know you more, you have to get to know him more.. what if you get to know him great and you stop liking him? I am just saying... everything is possible.. just enjoy this time, because it's not so frequent to have platonic loves throughout your lifetime. Link to post Share on other sites
MonsterMash Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Maybe he feels the same way you do but is afraid to say so. He's keeping the status quo for fear of scaring you off is my guess. Link to post Share on other sites
SandRat Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 Just plant your lips on him. In the parking lot when no one's around. Kiss him like you mean it. And for God's sake, quit calling him brother. Sounds you're to blame for that one. A kiss is all it usually takes to find out. PS: Read my sig. line. Link to post Share on other sites
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