QUESTIONS Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 Just wondering.. if someone cheats... whats the odds that they will eventually come crawling back... what has been your take on this.. I am also thinking about how do they approach you knowing what you know... and do they really think it would work??
eskimokiss Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 Once a cheat always a cheat. Invest your energy into finding someone else.
moodyblues Posted July 22, 2004 Posted July 22, 2004 My ex came back to me a little over a year after he cheated on me. The thing is though he is in IN and I am in NV so that was a problem (or blessing). He just told me that he really had thought about what he had done to me, apologized profusely, and tried to patch everything back up. Eventually I realized that I still didn't trust him. Actually, I knew that he would never cheat on me again, but I couldn't trust him in the other things that he had said he changed on (like cleaning, or not working 16hr days 7 days a week). Plus, the anger at the OW that I thought had gone away was apparently still there and I didn't want it to be and unfortunately just his presence reminded me of it all. It was so weird too because three weeks before that happened I was finally good and felt like I let go that part of me that wanted him back so bad. Finally able to watch Swingers and get the ending.
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