mehim Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 OMG, i still cant believe that i'm with him again, i was soooo scared to even call him, and ask he was doing. after 5monhts of NC i called him, although he broke up with me, but it was cuz of me, the phone call went so well. he was so happy that i had called him, its like he was waitting for this one phone call from me, for him to proceed with the rest. after a week of talking to each other, mostly him calling me, we hung out to play vollyball, and we spen time at the park, it just went from there. i was still really confused, couldnt tell what we were doing together at that moment. i kept on asking him, and trying to talk about what happened between us, and he would refuse to talk about. he said that it was the past, but i told him i needed some answeres, but he wouldnt give me any answeres, so i gave up. i knew he wouldnt asnwer me that day, so i will give it some time to talk about it later. but anyways, we are back together, i wouldnt of dreamd about that, but it happened. by the way he did asnwer one question, which was y he didnt call me, lol he said he was scared!!! i was like what!!! scared. i said i dont bite, he said sometimes u do its just a joke. i just wanted to bring some positive posts in here, to lighten up the board, lol. Good luck to everyone who is still trying to win thier lost babe back. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss_Prolixity Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 That is really AWESOME news and I am so happy for you. You had stated it had been five months since you two had any contact. Do you think if you wouldn't have ever took the initiative to call him first that he would have eventually, since he was the dumper? Anyways, congratulations! You must be on cloud 9. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mehim Posted July 22, 2004 Author Share Posted July 22, 2004 i asked him this question, i was like if i havent called u would u ever call me one day, and his response was like "NO" i was so dissappointed, and the same reason was him being scared. i guess it was fear of rejection, and he didnt need any more of putting his ego down on my behalf. although its different for every relationship, and the reasons to y u broke up in the first place are dufferent. which on them reasons it will vary about who makes the call. i dont even know if i'm making anysense. Link to post Share on other sites
Blah Toolz Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 How old are you guys... and mind telling me how the break-up went down? Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I did "no contact" for about the same time. I just recently saw "her", and she still had feeligs for me. I don't know if I'd be able to get a second chance. However, she did want to hang out, or "see me" again. I told her NO. She broke my heart, she's not going to win again. In the end it all comes down to what YOU really want. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mehim Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 he is 21, and im 19, i know ur gonna think oh God u r so young to be going through all this, but he is my first love, and its never easy for the first one. we broke up, becasue he cant stop lying about small stuff, and one day he hung out with me, and i dropped him off by his car, at a cafe were we alwyas hang out. so he said he was going home, and i was like ok. then 5 minutes later i see him sitting with his friends, i was really upset, and my anger got the best of me. i acted upon my emotions, and i was just sick of him lying, so i called up a few guy friends and told them to hang out. so i walked in with few guys, into the same cafe, and didnt go up to him or anything. after a little bit him and his freinds left, two days later, he broke up with me. he wanted to stay friends but i couldnt, so i said i dont want to talk to u again. but i still saw him at that cafe after we broke couple times, becasue we also have mutual freinds. but i just couldnt take it anymore, i know he broke me heart, but i know i did him wrong, which was y it gave me a good reason to y i should be the one calling him. i know some people r gonna say that it is so stupid and childesh, but thats who we both are, and we love everything about each other "except his little lies", isnt that what love is about. Link to post Share on other sites
bm Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 thats great that you guys are back together i wish it was the same for me.my bf broke up with me about a week and a half ago and i hurt so bad....do you think i should call him like you called your ex???if so do you think a month would be to soon to do it bc i don't think i could wait much longer i just really want him also if i do call what all should i talk about i don't want to call and not have anything to say .what all did you talk about the first time?? Link to post Share on other sites
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