SierraMist Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 A couple of days ago i had to break up with my ex, heres the story if ur interested http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t43345/ Anyways, im really working at it to move on, washing all the sheets we cuddled in (So it doesnt smell like her anymore), Tearing the notes she had written me and threw em away, Hid her pictures so i wont see them , Hid all the thing she left around the house so i dont remember her. Everyday im smiling bit by bit, forgetting about her, forgetting about the good times we had. The problem isnt during the day tho, the problem is during the night. The past 3 days ive been having nightmares, not the ghost and goblin kind, but nightmares about my ex. The past 3 days ive been dreaming about her having sex with other guys and not giving a care that im around while they do it. The worst part is that in my dreams she is having sex with a friend i "used" to hang out with. Also in my dreams everytime i get close to her, she is around another guy. This is very disturbing and very depressing, last night i woke up in a cold sweat because the guy she was having sex with was telling me that they've done it 5 times and he was telling me how and when they did it. This might sound very gay to some people, but im recovering from a broken heart and seeing someone youve loved and did everything u can so she would smile doing it with another guy REALLY REALLY hurts. What the heck is going on??? 3 days straight and im having nightmares about the same thing over and over again. What could this mean??, Why is this happening to me? Am i messed up?? Some help would be really nice Link to post Share on other sites
supermom Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 So sorry to hear about your nightmares. Is she the last thing you think about before going to sleep? Do you fall asleep to the tv? If not, try it, you may start dreaming about stuff on tv. Breakups are never easy, someday this will pass for you. Maybe think about other girls.....I really don't know what to suggest. Good luck hope you are ok soon and get a good nights sleep. Link to post Share on other sites
asilisa Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 SierraMist -- after reading your story I think these dreams have a lot to do with how your girlfriend cheated on you. So no, nothing is wrong with you. Supermom's idea of watching TV might work. Or perhaps you are supressing your feelings during the day and this is why you are having nightmares. I don't know. Break-ups suck sooo bad, don't think of it when you're all in love though. Hopefully you'll work through this, if you need to talk I'll be here. Link to post Share on other sites
Lakespookie Posted July 24, 2004 Share Posted July 24, 2004 super mom your the best i also have dreams although mine are that were together again but i know how you feel theres nothing wrong with expressing your fellings i wish i could give you advice on how to make them stop but ive been single for 8 monthe and i still get them regularly and the worst part is that they feel so real u belive its true sorry about hijaking your post Link to post Share on other sites
supermom Posted July 24, 2004 Share Posted July 24, 2004 Lakespookie, are you talking about another thread of mine? Thanks for the compliment Link to post Share on other sites
Lakespookie Posted July 24, 2004 Share Posted July 24, 2004 u always have good advice supermom Link to post Share on other sites
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