Sauron Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 Instead of spewing the same tired crap as you have above, why not respond to what I said. Why not let your wife be responsible for her own happiness. You do not have any idea of what opinions I want or do not want to listen to. You have not listened long enough to see what anyone else wants. You pontificate and puff up and tell us all how you don't like it that we all think the same way and look at your posts. You always say the same thing, always saying you are providing the alternative opinion, but really, when your opinion is always the same, how does that make you any different than anyone else you say have closed minds. Blah blah blah, you think your wife doesn't need to know? Tell her if you have the guts and let's see if she can be responsible for her own happiness. Many people on here have gone through more crap than you can imagine and your constant minimizing of other people's difficulties is demeaning and demoralizing. My 2 cents and I don't care if it doesn't sit well with you. So what? You are off topic and attacking me personally, again. I hope you don't get points.I will be glad to ask the mods to open up my original post so you can get it all out of your system. Link to post Share on other sites
Steen719 Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 You are off topic and attacking me personally, again. I hope you don't get points.I will be glad to ask the mods to open up my original post so you can get it all out of your system. LOL :lmao::lmao::lmao: I'm scared!!!!!!!! And no thanks, think that does it! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mercy Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 You are off topic and attacking me personally, again. I hope you don't get points.I will be glad to ask the mods to open up my original post so you can get it all out of your system. ummm the ten year old in me says, you started it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sauron Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 Forum wariors... some here do not like my life style and think it matters to me what they say. But really good luck to the poster, you need it. Link to post Share on other sites
underwater2010 Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 LOL :lmao::lmao::lmao: I'm scared!!!!!!!! And no thanks, think that does it! Don't worry....that is his mo. He does not take well to opposing positions. He baits then gets people blocked. Just don't bother engaging with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Steen719 Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 Don't worry....that is his mo. He does not take well to opposing positions. He baits then gets people blocked. Just don't bother engaging with him. Yes, you are right; thank you. I temporarily lost my good sense. Link to post Share on other sites
frozensprouts Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 OP, i read part of the thread,but it kind of disintegrated into bickering ... did you send your letter? if your apology was real, and for her benefit, you may have given her a great gift...greater than you realize. If your apology is real and for her, you may,in time, have helped her to regain some faith in the "goodness" of others. One of the things an affair can take away from a betrayed spouse is their belief that most are good, kind, decent people...your apology will help show her that , though they may make some pretty big mistakes, most people are good and caring... your posts in this thread show, to me, real remorse and empathy...letter her see those traits in you will help...maybe not right away, but as the pain fades, she'll be ready to see it best of luck to you, and may the rest of your life be wonderful:) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 OP, i read part of the thread,but it kind of disintegrated into bickering ... did you send your letter? if your apology was real, and for her benefit, you may have given her a great gift...greater than you realize. If your apology is real and for her, you may,in time, have helped her to regain some faith in the "goodness" of others. One of the things an affair can take away from a betrayed spouse is their belief that most are good, kind, decent people...your apology will help show her that , though they may make some pretty big mistakes, most people are good and caring... your posts in this thread show, to me, real remorse and empathy...letter her see those traits in you will help...maybe not right away, but as the pain fades, she'll be ready to see it best of luck to you, and may the rest of your life be wonderful:) She did send the letter. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wanting more Posted September 19, 2012 Author Share Posted September 19, 2012 Sorry I haven't replied. my emotions have been all over the board so I'm just trying to deal with me for now. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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