health Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 How do you deal with people trying to hook up your partner with someone else? Any stories? I think it all depends on the partner. The partners choice. I am in a wonderful and loving relationship for 11 months now. These girls come up to my girlfriend and say if she ever gets tired of me that a perfect guy for her is waiting. And these girls know were still together, and see how happy we are. I have a feeling they told this guy they know a chicka perfect for him, because he is pribably lonely, and every so often they check up on us. This is annoying, yet ultimately its her decision. And she assured me she is still madly in love with me. So I'm trying to put away this girls out of my mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Fayebelle Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Jealousy is an ugly beast. I doubt this has anything to do w/you or him. Some people are just catty and hate to see others happy so they try to thow I sticks into their life cycle. Worrying about them is wasting time and thoughts they don't deserve. Don't give them power over your life, happiness, or relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
dudesomewhere Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 hey health...I might confuse you as I do others that said, I hate those that do what you described. Yet I also want them to do that. It's like making your life easier in a zen way. If they go, they go...no big deal. Saves you more time...less wasted. But of course it sucks eggs when they cheat because of that...cuz well, there's never a reason to cheat. I'm ok if someone dumps me and goes and humps some other dude...but only before, not after. I'm kooky Link to post Share on other sites
Pyrannaste Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 How do you deal with people trying to hook up your partner with someone else? Any stories? How to deal with it.... that's difficult, there is not a lot you can do about it. it should be your partner telling them to stop it. I saw it happen a few times. it happened to me too...a couple of friends trying to hook me up with someone else. (which I didn't appreciate) I saw it happen under these circumnstances: 1) you don't like your friend's partner for personal reasons, and you selfishly try to break them up. 2) your friend looks very unhappy to you, she is often complaining about her partner, she feels neglected, she feels not loved so you get the idea that the guy is an a*****e. You try to talk her into dumping the jerk (he might NOT be a jerk, but you believe he is from what your friend tells you). You know a guy whom you think would be perfect for her and you try to hook them up because you'd like her to be happy. 3) a male friend of you has fallen in love with/really likes your friend. He stresses you to death until you agree you'll tell your friend-even if she is in a relationship- that this guy would really love to know her. 4) you like your friend's bf, or another friend of you likes her bf...... you hope your friend will be interested in the new guy, will fall in love with him and the current bf will be soon single and available. Link to post Share on other sites
Author health Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 cool, thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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