Wasabi_is_spicy Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 For starters there was this guy I liked who started messaging me about studies etc. Then he proceeded on to having normal chit chat with me. We got along pretty well because we have tons in common. So we were supposed to go to a dog shelter which I helped out. The day before we went he asked if his girlfriend could come along because she was damn persistent when she found out he was going alone with another girl. I told him I wasn't comfortable going with his girlfriend so he said that it's alright we should just go together. However, the next day his girlfriend who can drive picked him up from the dog shelter. He's 20, I'm 18 and she's 27. From that day onwards he still kept messaging me to chit chat and stuff. We even went to watch a movie together once. Just two days ago, he broke up with his girlfriend. The reason was because he's the third party in their relationship and the girl didn't want to choose between him or the other guy. He's not a bad guy it's just that when he first started dating the girl, that girl didn't tell him she was engaged. So yesterday he asked me out cause staying at home was killing him. We went to the dog farm, played around at IKEA then went drinking together afterwards. While drinking he was telling me how much he loved his girlfriend and all the stuff he would do for her. What's driving me crazy is that I'm really starting to have feelings for him despite knowing that he's still recovering from his ex. Actually when he first started messaging me, I had also just come out from a bad relationship. So both us us understand each under emotionally. I don't know what to do? Confess to him now or wait till he's fully recovered. Or does he even like me or see me as a friend only? Anyways we're planning a nearby overseas trip for just the two of us in about 4 days time. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 For starters there was this guy I liked who started messaging me about studies etc. Then he proceeded on to having normal chit chat with me. We got along pretty well because we have tons in common. So we were supposed to go to a dog shelter which I helped out. The day before we went he asked if his girlfriend could come along because she was damn persistent when she found out he was going alone with another girl. I told him I wasn't comfortable going with his girlfriend so he said that it's alright we should just go together. However, the next day his girlfriend who can drive picked him up from the dog shelter. He's 20, I'm 18 and she's 27. From that day onwards he still kept messaging me to chit chat and stuff. We even went to watch a movie together once. Just two days ago, he broke up with his girlfriend. The reason was because he's the third party in their relationship and the girl didn't want to choose between him or the other guy. He's not a bad guy it's just that when he first started dating the girl, that girl didn't tell him she was engaged. So yesterday he asked me out cause staying at home was killing him. We went to the dog farm, played around at IKEA then went drinking together afterwards. While drinking he was telling me how much he loved his girlfriend and all the stuff he would do for her. What's driving me crazy is that I'm really starting to have feelings for him despite knowing that he's still recovering from his ex. Actually when he first started messaging me, I had also just come out from a bad relationship. So both us us understand each under emotionally. I don't know what to do? Confess to him now or wait till he's fully recovered. Or does he even like me or see me as a friend only? Anyways we're planning a nearby overseas trip for just the two of us in about 4 days time. Be his friend, explore your feelings, isolate what you are feeling and why you are feeling things towards him and if none of it makes any sense at all.....you are probably falling in love....so tell him...you wont know unless you try and rebound relationships are not set to fail people are set to fail if they let themselves fail.If they dont move forward and go into a back spin...big fat failure....lol now on a positive note.....BE POSITIVE and happy be there let him know you are there.....deb Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wasabi_is_spicy Posted September 16, 2012 Author Share Posted September 16, 2012 I told him I think that I may actually like him. However I told him I won't put him on the spot because he just broke up with his girlfriend. So I said I just said it to let him know not really because I want an immediate answer from him. At first he asked me if I was kidding but then he realised that I was serious. I told him that there's no need to bring the topic up anymore. He said something like "This is a good time to tell me cause I'm experiencing heartbreak."I think he missed the word not a good time? Then he said ok let's not talk about it. Then we just proceeded on to chit chat about normal stuff.. OMG did I mess things up? Link to post Share on other sites
Robinmarsh12 Posted September 17, 2012 Share Posted September 17, 2012 I know from a Unholy stand point EJ is showing a possible 90% uptime for Sigil of Virulence and it is better than Sigil of Vengeful Heart. I have not looked over the threads for Frost or Blood yet. Link to post Share on other sites
SandRat Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 I know from a Unholy stand point EJ is showing a possible 90% uptime for Sigil of Virulence and it is better than Sigil of Vengeful Heart. I have not looked over the threads for Frost or Blood yet. Your post has been most helpful. Your ability to dissect the subject matter and reveal the contained jewels of wisdom is unmatched. Link to post Share on other sites
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