notimportant Posted September 16, 2012 Share Posted September 16, 2012 Ok, where to begin... I met this couple, like 6 months ago. I started to hang out with them and their friends so now we're without a doubt in the same social group and everything. After like 3 months they broke up, and since then me and her started to hang out a lot. I mean like almost everyday the entire summer. The problem is though that her ex is becoming one of my closest friends, so i never put the moves on her. She is 110 percent over him, she tells me it was a mistake and if you had seen her after they broke up she couldn't have been happier. So me and her have a really really great connection. Basically it has gotten to the point where people are catching on. So the other night we were all out at a restaurant. Me, her, the ex (Yes it is very awkward that they still hang out, especially considering that he is kinda obsessed over her and has a psycho temper), another guy friend, and two of her friends. Whenever he got up to go to the bar, bathroom, or something, they would keep teasing both of us. Me mess with each other a lot so they keep saying stuff like when are you guys gonna get married. Even she keeps saying things like "Oh you know that you love me and secretly wanna have babies with me" Dont worry we're 19 and kidding lol. So her friends kinda know i like her at this point and in front of us both keep saying how cute we would be together. We have a kind of childish way of flirting with one another. We tease each other a lot and all that, so thats kinda why people have been catching on. The problem though is the ex, but i would be willing to sacrifice a friendship for her, that's how much i want to be with her! What do you guys think? Does she like me back? Link to post Share on other sites
ambivalentwish Posted September 16, 2012 Share Posted September 16, 2012 You might be reading into then 'teasing' you guys have going on a little too much. I'd play it slow and careful. You don't want to end up just being the rebound guy. If you guys do choose to become romantically involved make sure she knows you don't want to be just her ex's "replacement." Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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