LostOnTour Posted September 16, 2012 Share Posted September 16, 2012 The story's simple enough but I'm in a total mess. I'm currently on a round the world trip and I met a girl and her friends in Singapore 3 months ago, we all had a fun week together before we headed in different directions. We met up again a couple of weeks ago and for the last week we've been everywhere together, I don't think we've even had a meal apart. I'd love to be more than just friends but I'm not really experienced when it comes to asking women out, she knows that I'm a bit shy but has no idea of its true extent. This is where the complications come in: 1. Her previous boyfriend has been messaging her and they've agreed to book a holiday together and see what happens. They're living thousands of miles apart but could be back together in 3 months. 2. She's questioning if she really should meet him because of the cost and because she doesn't know what to expect. At other times she'll say how she can't wait to meet him. She's just booked the tickets but still has doubts. 3. I'd hate to ruin our friendship by making a wrong move, we've already made longer term plans and I'd love to follow them through. 4. I'm not her usual style of boyfriend, she prefers the bad boys and I'm more of a nice guy. I keep debating with my self if I should tell her how I feel, so much so that its driving me insane Telling her would risk our friendship but not telling her is painful. I've even thought of just getting out of the area and letting her know that its too much to see her every day without being more than friends. Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted September 16, 2012 Share Posted September 16, 2012 if you think you love her, put yourself in the running and tell her you care about her, you could peck her on the lips (not the cheek) which means you'd like a scr**w, as do we all, imho xx Link to post Share on other sites
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