wysiwyg6000 Posted September 17, 2012 Share Posted September 17, 2012 So I've been dating this woman for about a month now and I'm not sure where things are headed with her. We both go out and have a good time together, but I notice that she hasn't really opened up to me yet. I've tried to "bait" her for lack of a better term with emotional topics (like former relationship stories) hoping to spark a bond with her, but it's not happening. She just kind of answers the question and doesn't go into it any deeper, which makes me think she might be a not so open person. I feel like it's just ordinary conversation as opposed to deeper ones. The funny thing is that this just kind of happened right away with my ex-girlfriend - I almost felt like she told me her entire life story by the 4th or 5th date...but it was massively important since I'm a more closed off person and her making herself vulnerable to me allowed me to open up to her and formed a strong bond fast. I really like this woman and don't want to just give up on her after I've invested a month of my time and money with her. What are some topics that I can use with her to try to get her to open up or bond? How can I break through this wall since I have a feeling we're both holding onto some pain from our breakups with our exes? Link to post Share on other sites
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