lukas Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 (edited) I was just remembering something from a while back where an ex of mine had a friend she straight up told me she knew liked her but that she kept telling him he wasn't her type. I was kept away from him as often as possible and could tell he seriously disliked me. The thing was she told everyone the same story more or less that he liked her and she didn't like him. I remember wondering why they still hung out at all. Eventually his roommate who I was good friends with accidentally blurted out she had slept in that other guy's room and then insisted they'd never had sex. (how she could be sure of that though I have no idea). I'd been told she'd stayed on their couch. That was enough for me to dump her. I'm just curious as to why girls out there would hang out with someone they know is interested in them when they don't feel the same way. Especially if they have a boyfriend... Having rejected women, I know well enough to cut contact with them! Edited September 18, 2012 by lukas adding details Link to post Share on other sites
FryFish Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 Because they are attention whores... Seriously, girls who NEED guy friends are not relationship material. Link to post Share on other sites
colombiana28 Posted September 18, 2012 Share Posted September 18, 2012 i've investigated this phenomenon within myself and have to say, yes, it's because some women, myself included, are big ol' attention whores. i have several "friends" i hang out with every once in awhile who i know are into me, and they know i'm not into them, but the "friendship" still happens because well, everybody seems to get what they want...for awhile. i get sound life advice, good sports talk, help with my fantasy teams, get to smoke pot for free, and generally have the rapt attention of whoever i'm with. they get...my presence, my charm, my vast intellect...just not my pussy. sometimes they'll lose interest, sometimes they decide i'm cool enough to hang out with platonically (of course, they're most likely just pretending to be my friend...OH WELL!) works out for me, most of the time. til you get a clinger, those are the worst. just admitting what some women won't. (i'm totally not relationship material, and i know it). Link to post Share on other sites
Jackson3491 Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 (edited) So she slept at the other guys place and now you are forced to make an assumtion. Remember that if you have to assume anything at all it has to be in your best interest. You are forced to assume she had sex with him and now you have to dump her. Its that simple really Edited September 27, 2012 by Jackson3491 mis spelling Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 I'm just curious as to why girls out there would hang out with someone they know is interested in them when they don't feel the same way. Especially if they have a boyfriend... The simplest answer is that they 'like' that someone 'likes' them in a sexual way. For some, having a partner or spouse isn't enough; they need more. It's not really about the other person; in fact the other person is generally interchangeable and not really a person to them, rather an energy source feeding their id. Link to post Share on other sites
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