lynntlb78 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm not jealous of the babies or buying a house together. I bought my own last year and bachelor life is AWESOME. But having someone to do things with, and talk to all the time is pretty good, just in a different way then friends. The thing that I find sucks the most is finding that person who adds to your life. I was single for several years while pursuing a degree and I was a happy single girl. I didn't need anybody, I wanted somebody. But I was okay either way.My own house, schedule, car. Weddings and babies didn't bother me. But I didn't know what I was missing...until I had it...until it was gone. Now marriages and baby news comes with difficulty. I had finally seen myself with that future, in that role and now its all gone. That makes being alone hard. Before I didn't have a void, now there is a big one. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Minka333 Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 I was NEVER fond of weddings or marriages ever since i was a young girl. I don't know why. But society is so judgmental. I could be a happy single girl forever but relatives and family adds pressure and it sucks! Now i'm at an age where i should take the next step or be branded by my narrow minded clan as a failure. I hate this so much and now i'm so confused. Why was weddings ever invented??? why can't just 2 people be happy together without all the fuss. Sigh! Yet a part of me also believes i should try it. Weird! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tree_Salmon Posted September 26, 2012 Author Share Posted September 26, 2012 I was NEVER fond of weddings or marriages ever since i was a young girl. I don't know why. But society is so judgmental. I could be a happy single girl forever but relatives and family adds pressure and it sucks! Now i'm at an age where i should take the next step or be branded by my narrow minded clan as a failure. I hate this so much and now i'm so confused. Why was weddings ever invented??? why can't just 2 people be happy together without all the fuss. Sigh! Yet a part of me also believes i should try it. Weird! I never really cared about what society was saying and I still don't but I actually didn't mind marriage or children with my ex. I was willing to go that route. I'm pretty sure i'm not getting married any time soon now. Link to post Share on other sites
Hobbit Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 I'm pretty sure i'm not getting married any time soon now. Me three, unless Mila Kunis comes running into my arms!! lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tree_Salmon Posted October 4, 2012 Author Share Posted October 4, 2012 Now I see people who barely go out 3 months getting engaged. This is really cool. I cant wait to see the new divorce rates. Link to post Share on other sites
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