AD1980 Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Actually, that's not really true. I've seen women here tear into guys who have posted their photos here pretty badly. Maybe a few times ive seen the most it but its rare,i usually see a unattractive dude put a picture up and women bs about how hes cute or good looking too be nice:p Link to post Share on other sites
KungFuJoe Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Jobaba, You don't want to contribute to discrimination?!?! You just did! Unless you're too blind to notice. Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 It doesn't matter how unattractive I am. I'm not the barometer. I never use myself as the barometer of how my race fares. Of course most men are going to pick Halle Berry over Janet Reno, but in an anthropology sense, if you line up an average black woman versus an average white woman, most men will pick the average white woman. It's just kind of the way things are. This is without even getting into the men who aren't attracted to black women, no matter how attractive. I don't pretend that things aren't. Instead, I do my best to make sure I don't contribute to discriminating against someone based on something they can't control. Anywhere on the internet really. You'll have people who bash you behind a computer screen, when they don't have their own pics up to take it themselves. I will not agree with any of this because it wouldn't make a difference at all. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Find a Toni and Guy salon near you. The hair needs updating. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Jobaba, You don't want to contribute to discrimination?!?! You just did! Unless you're too blind to notice. Whatever... Actions speak louder than words IMO. So while I might say that America and really the world in general finds white people more attractive, for myself, I would marry any race, doesn't matter. You'd prefer a person who kept mum or 'uppity-cheery, everybody's beautiful' on the outside, but in reality, they would never consider dating a minority man/woman? OK... Link to post Share on other sites
KungFuJoe Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Whatever... Actions speak louder than words IMO. So while I might say that America and really the world in general finds white people more attractive, for myself, I would marry any race, doesn't matter. You'd prefer a person who kept mum or 'uppity-cheery, everybody's beautiful' on the outside, but in reality, they would never consider dating a minority man/woman? OK... What I'm saying is if you go out of your way to constantly bring up such stupid stereotypes you are indirectly contributing to the continued existence of said stupid stereotypes. There was absolutely NO NEED for you to tell the op that he was better off than being Asian, Indian, or black. What do you think that does to someone who already has insecurities about his/her race and happens to read what you posted? You obviously can't see past your own nose if you can't see what you're doing. What makes you even worse is you try to play it off like you're innocent. You're worse than the openly discriminate people...at least you can see them coming a mile away. You're more like a racist ninja. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 What I'm saying is if you go out of your way to constantly bring up such stupid stereotypes you are indirectly contributing to the continued existence of said stupid stereotypes. There was absolutely NO NEED for you to tell the op that he was better off than being Asian, Indian, or black. What do you think that does to someone who already has insecurities about his/her race and happens to read what you posted? You obviously can't see past your own nose if you can't see what you're doing. What makes you even worse is you try to play it off like you're innocent. You're worse than the openly discriminate people...at least you can see them coming a mile away. You're more like a racist ninja. It's just a generality. You didn't jump down my throat for saying that he's got a leg up because he appears tall. Anyway, there's no point in arguing further. This could literally go on for pages... Link to post Share on other sites
runningfar Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Your insecurities with your looks do not appear to be based in reality. You are above average, absolutely. Only negative is the background of the photos and you are not smiling. Photos where you are out with friends or outside would be more flattering... but just looking at your features, I cannot imagine any girl ruling you out for dating based on looks. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 (edited) You are cute but very young looking, I am guessing like 22 yrs old max. You have a baby face. You're cute, it's hard to judge sometimes in pictures, I bet in person you are more attractive as a whole package rather than just a snapshot. I think kinda spikey hair would be really cute on you. I like the polo shirt look Casual but put together Edited September 19, 2012 by veggirl Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 He's not a 4. He's white, appears to be tall/average height, and is decent shape. That puts him above Asian guys, Indian guys, black guys, short guys, and fat guys. And his face is average at worst. I know people have individual tastes, but in the consensus scheme of things, he's at least a 6. I'm a realist... If he's a 6 then I shudder to think what I am. I need to go look at what a 4 is on the female scale to see what I should be shooting for. ........... yeah, it's not pretty. Link to post Share on other sites
O'farrell Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 No, but you ain't ugly either. Link to post Share on other sites
O'farrell Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 5.5-6.5 Your face won't get much better unless you cut a lot of bodyfat, but even then your average. Get in good shape, dress with some swag, and learn to be yourself. You're not in a bad situation. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 dude, anonymous people on the internet are gonna be more harsh just cause they can be. You shouldn't have asked this. OR you should've done like a pic for pic thing......show me a pic before you give your opinion. something. SD, you're not a 4 as I remember the one pic I saw of you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author goober26 Posted September 19, 2012 Author Share Posted September 19, 2012 Hey no my nickname isnt actually goober haha. I see alot of you talking about my hair, any suggestions? pics would be preferred haha. Link to post Share on other sites
O'farrell Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 (edited) You do not appear to be short THAT ALONE puts you around a 6 or 7 in the grand scheme of men. Which although, will not get you automatic action, will enable you ... if you work on your game, to do well with women. He's not a 4. He's white, appears to be tall/average height, and is decent shape. That puts him above black guys I'm a realist... I know this 5'4 black guy who is dating the absolutely hottest mexican girl. She is a legitimate 9/10 heavenly blessed beauty. The guy was a drug dealer in high school and still to this day sells weed. Hes always dressed fresh(not nice like a white person, think hip hop). The girl is also very ghetto and shes from Richmond, ca, but she is STUNNING. Edited September 20, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed inflammatory comment Link to post Share on other sites
Author goober26 Posted September 19, 2012 Author Share Posted September 19, 2012 also i like that pic idea haha, would be cool if some of you could post pics just to get an idea of the audience. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 If he's a 6 then I shudder to think what I am. I need to go look at what a 4 is on the female scale to see what I should be shooting for. ........... yeah, it's not pretty. I'd consider myself a 4 as well. The funny thing is at that point ... 3s and 4s don't really want 3s and 4s. They want better. So, it's not like a gal who is a 4 would see me and think I'm hot. She'd think nothing just like a gal who is a 7.5 would think. So at that point, it's better to go after people who aren't as concerned with looks. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 I'd consider myself a 4 as well. The funny thing is at that point ... 3s and 4s don't really want 3s and 4s. They want better. So, it's not like a gal who is a 4 would see me and think I'm hot. She'd think nothing just like a gal who is a 7.5 would think. So at that point, it's better to go after people who aren't as concerned with looks. Well, this is all related...people strive to "attain" the most attractive person they can, but eventually there comes a time when they have to face the reality of their own attractiveness and how others want the most attractive person they can get...so the people who "aren't concerned with looks" tend to be those who have relegated themselves to the lower echelons of attractiveness, where looks are generally not people's strong points. Link to post Share on other sites
Humate Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 No offence, but I can't stand it when a woman calls me cute. It's simply codeword for "You're not hot, I would never ever date you, therefore I'll say something nice without going too over the top which doesn't imply I'm interested in you". All my experiences with this word and women have all led down the same, heartbroken path. The op is fine. He could probably get a lot of women with a good personality and confidence. That really is all it takes. If your comfortable in your own skin and with your own looks, then that's all that matters. If you want to lose weight, you will inevitably attract more women, if that's the Avenue you want to go down. But if the weight is not an issue, then by all means just build up your confidence and women will take notice. And to the ignorant individual that said something along the lines of "That puts him above Indians, Asians, Short Men.."" Really? I think you have some esteem issues. I'm a 5-5 male and have had countless women come up to me and ask me out. Why? Because they find me attractive obviously. Just because you may not find Indians, Asians, Short guys unattractive doesn't mean the rest of the world won't. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 also i like that pic idea haha, would be cool if some of you could post pics just to get an idea of the audience. I put 4 pics of myself in my album. I think they are viewable to all. Remember though, I am but a busted 29 yr old on the fritz I will look for a photo of hair I think you'd like nice in. Your hair is just kinda fluffy. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Tags Boys Haircut Boys Spiky Haircut Kids Haircuts Anime first or 5th pic Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Alright, I'll do my requisite "Queer Eye" analysis... OP, you have very high potential to do very well for yourself. I take it that you're probably in your early 20's. First of all, you seriously need to do something with your hair...it's atrocious...having a decent haircut and grooming it daily will do wonders for you. Next, your face is still developing. You should start getting on a weight training program and start building some body mass. That will also lean out your face to show your jawline and cheekbones. Other than that, keep wearing clothes that fit you and you should be fine. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Tags Boys Haircut Boys Spiky Haircut Kids Haircuts Anime first or 5th pic Number 5 gets my vote for him. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Number 5 gets my vote for him. I googled "boy spikey hair" and #5 is the pic that I clicked on, it brought up the whole link and I looked til I found that one I like #5 best as well. But I mean, can't leave out Leo! Link to post Share on other sites
Author goober26 Posted September 19, 2012 Author Share Posted September 19, 2012 idk how id look with spiky hair lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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