girl18 Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months and have an awesome relationship. We have never fought and get along very well and respect/understand each other. However, he and his cousin went on vacation for 6 days and I offered to take them to the airport so I drove them both there at 4am and I am watching his dog for him too. When I dropped him off he told me he would call me everyday and he called me the next 2 days and that was it. These past 2 days he has not called. He has texted me and sent me photos of the scenery of where he is and asked me my shirt/pant size because I guess he got me a couple things but I just think that out of respect for the fact that I am helping him out with his dog and drove him to the airport, that he could take a minute out of his day to give me a call. I just miss him and like hearing his voice. We live an hour apart and only see each other on weekends and I am used to talking to him everyday. This is making me think that he doesn't care about me/isnt thinking about me but I'm sure that isn't the case and I'm probably overreacting. My question is, do I say something or just bite my tongue and not say anything? He comes home in 2 days and I am picking him up. Do I wait until he comes back to say something? I'm sure he will text me this morning because he texts me all day but I feel like saying something. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Even if he isn't calling, he is still in contact with you via pics and texts. I think it's fine. People say "call" and instead text all the time, it's pretty common. I don't think you should be upset. Now if he was not in any contact with you after telling you he'd call every day, yeah I'd be pissed but not in this situation. Why don't you text him that you'd love if he called so you could hear his voice? Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 I think you need to look at your expectations along with his word (agreement). He hasn't kept his word... Ifitdoes bother you - then tell him. He's not a mind reader. Personally - I would never make that promise. Secondly I would never hold a favor over someone's head like they owed me something. Link to post Share on other sites
veryhappy Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 In his defense, plenty of men aren't the talkative kind. He hasn't forgotten about you, just hasn't called. Why don't you call him? Do it now, instead of blowing up when he gets back. Link to post Share on other sites
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