oaks Posted September 21, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2012 In the sense that you have a good family, you have good friends but you also NEED a partner for life?. I don't think so. I'm not talking about complete solitude here, I'm taking about all but one. No partner. If you're telling me it's the human condition that's responsible for that feeling, I'm glad I don't suffer from that condition. Perhaps this isn't the right thread to talk about Maslow etc, but I'm pretty sure my friends won't give me a blowjob. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Hawaii50 Posted September 21, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2012 I'm pretty lonely... I've been working in Iraq/Aghan****stain for just over 4 yrs. I just turned 30 and am starting to hit the snooze button on my paternal clock. I have no trouble finding anything I desire when back in civilization, I'm just not in the market Anyhoo.. I'm very-much over it, but I still have another year or so left till I'm done. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 21, 2012 Author Share Posted September 21, 2012 Just got rejected by the last girl in my classes. All of them either have a boyfriend or are not interested in dating. If my height prevents me from getting girls, then I will get a girl by dragging her in chains. I know its illegal, but if I could sell my soul to get a girl, I would do it. However, I don't believe in god, the devil, or an afterlife. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted September 21, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2012 I don't know if this video is going to motivate you or offend you You have to find the answer within yourself. Don't listen to females. Never ask any validation from them. That's what Women should do (eg: do I look fat in this?) When you just believe in yourself, you are more likely to be stable. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 (edited) Just got rejected by the last girl in my classes. All of them either have a boyfriend or are not interested in dating. If my height prevents me from getting girls, then I will get a girl by dragging her in chains. I know its illegal, but if I could sell my soul to get a girl, I would do it. However, I don't believe in god, the devil, or an afterlife. School (undergrad?) is your absolute best chance to meet a woman for a while. Some freshmen and sophomores will not yet have their egos inflated yet, and may be open to the idea of dating you. Once you get into your 20s and those women are able to start making out with cute/hot guys at bars every month, they won't look at you as any kind of option at all. You might have to wait until your 30s to find a woman who will date you if your luck is bad enough. Strike now... Edited September 22, 2012 by jobaba Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Im already 23. I already mentioned that I will not wait till my 30's to get a girl. By then, many will be married or divorced with kids. If I must, I may have to use machiavellian tactics on girls. Even people with big egos are no match for it. Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 (edited) Im already 23. I already mentioned that I will not wait till my 30's to get a girl. By then, many will be married or divorced with kids. If I must, I may have to use machiavellian tactics on girls. Even people with big egos are no match for it. Then act now... The 20s 'adult' circuit is the absolute worst for undesirable men, and your height puts you in that category. I'm not trying to be a d@uche, just realistic, and I'm in that same category. I know a woman who never dated in high school, was made to feel inferior next to the hot, high falootin' sorority girls at college, but now in her late 20s/early 30s is able to pull men VERY EASILY. She can go out and make out with a guy at a bar every 2 weeks. She's still a nice girl, but she won't accept a 'lesser' man. I've read from female posters here on LS who were dateless in high school and even college, and then in their 20s, dating opportunities exploded for them. Now, they have high, high standards. I've seen this phenomenon so many times. I call it the "Suzie theory". Once 'Suzie' gets attention and her ego is inflated, she will completely forget the fact that she once had it hard as well and will expect the absolute best guy. Strike now, while there are still some women who are somewhat humble. It'll come around again in your 30s, for different reasons... P.S. I give you this advice assuming you are a real poster and not pretending to be a short poster. I am actually on a college campus part time these days, and I see quite a few guys between 5'0" and 5'5". So, you are not alone... Edited September 22, 2012 by jobaba Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Since virtually all girls I meet have boyfriends already, including freshman girls, I must resort to extreme measures. This means that I will have to eliminate the boyfriend using any methods possible. I also may use fear instead of love to get the girl since love does not seem to exist in this age group. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Hookers would only be a temporary solution. I would like to have a family of my own someday. Besides, if I dont get a girl soon, I will simply resort to bridenapping. I wont have to deal with nonstop rejection and inflated egos, and I can use this to get revenge for all of the rejections I have experienced. Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Hookers would only be a temporary solution. I would like to have a family of my own someday. Besides, if I dont get a girl soon, I will simply resort to bridenapping. I wont have to deal with nonstop rejection and inflated egos, and I can use this to get revenge for all of the rejections Aah, there we have one responsible for another mass shooting in America. You sound scary. Women are doing themselves a favor by staying away from you. Link to post Share on other sites
Matlock Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Don't be calling women "shallow" just because they prefer taller men. Everyone has preferences - I guess EVERYONE is shallow, then. Some men like blondes, some like brunettes, some like them curvy women, some like them skinny, and some like them overweight. I guess they're all shallow for having preferences, is that it? Get a grip. It's shallow because height isn't something people have control over. On the other hand, hair color and weight are things people can control. Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 I haven't read all the pages but by what means are you looking for dates? Are you actively pursuing? Do you cold approach, do you have a strong social circle that enables you to meet multiple women? Are you using online dating? In my experience online dating is futile if you're short. I mean it's futile, period, for most men, but if you're short I would suggest not using OLD. Of course we'll have a girl come in here who is 6'8 and tell us how she found the love of her life online and the guy is 5'1, but they are the exception and not the rule. As someone who is not on the tall side of things, I've found this is not a problem in real life. It has never been a deal breaker for a girl, that I know of. I've captured the interest of girls of all heights and body types, from shorter to me, to my height, to significantly taller. OLD, however, is a different story. I think it only plays a role in your dating life if you let it. Girls are more emotionally charged; if you are able to charm her in person, it really doesn't matter how tall you are. If you have game, you have game. Game is futile online though, as a woman just sees your stats and makes her decision based off numbers, and not a natural chemistry that can only be found in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 I use cold approach. It is the only option I have since there are hardly any girls in my classes and the ones are in it already have boyfriends. My social circle has only one girl and she rejected me. I have been expanding my social circle, but so far, only more guys get inside it. I know that onlide dating is worse for short guys since I looked at their profile requirements. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 Maybe its because it does not look like I will be able to get a girl simply because of my height, the one trait I cannot change or improve. Every day, I get more rejection and my hopes are slowly fading away. I see guys with worse personalities get girls all the time. I simply refuse a life with no romantic partner. It just is not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted September 23, 2012 Author Share Posted September 23, 2012 Hookers and escorts are only a temporary solution. I even considered losing my virginity to one but decided to give sold approaches more of a chance. However, I need a more permanent solution and accepting being single for my life is not an option. Link to post Share on other sites
Negative Nancy Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 I call it the "Suzie theory". Once 'Suzie' gets attention and her ego is inflated, she will completely forget the fact that she once had it hard as well and will expect the absolute best guy Or Suzie thinks, you didn't want me back then, so fu.ck off now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
silicone Posted September 29, 2012 Share Posted September 29, 2012 OP, stay away from Twitter. Don't say I didn't warn you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted June 9, 2013 Author Share Posted June 9, 2013 Does anyone have any data on this subject. I hear people on both sides talk about this, but I want real data Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted June 9, 2013 Share Posted June 9, 2013 See an endocrinologist. Perhaps you need hormone treatment, like human growth hormone. Are both of your parents short? How about your siblings? You are young and may still have a growth spurt. An endocrinologist should be able to tell. You should be able to find plenty of women as well as support here. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 9, 2013 Share Posted June 9, 2013 Does anyone have any data on this subject. I hear people on both sides talk about this, but I want real data Real data? One, being an Asian man makes it harder to attract women in the US. Being significantly shorter than average also makes it harder to attract women. You've essentially got those two combined and working against you. The best thing you can do is move to an area that has a significant Asian population. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sun Devil Posted June 9, 2013 Author Share Posted June 9, 2013 Fitchick, I am 24. My bones have stopped growing. I went to a doctor a few years ago and there is nothing that can be done. Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted June 9, 2013 Share Posted June 9, 2013 Does anyone have any data on this subject. I hear people on both sides talk about this, but I want real data Real data on height in relationships? I'm sure you can use google like the rest of us. Link to post Share on other sites
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