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Taressa

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Paulie,

 

You're always making me smile. I hope you're doing well... any news on the girl you tempted with the tickets?

 

By the way, billy the kid said he was going to take your advice on taking a room - - the sunroom :)

 

Have a good day and fun night.

 

Taressa

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Well, Tarressa, seeing as you asked...(and thank you for asking)

 

I met her for the first time last weekend. I called her a few days after, and asked her to a show on Nov. 10th. My problem was that that was three weeks away from the night we met. She agreed to the show, but I felt it would be a bit awkward if we didn't meet up at least once between the time I met her and the show on the 10th.

 

Soo...I asked her if she wants to meet up for coffee, dinner, or something this week. She said yes,that was Saturday. Well...I called her on sunday, and monday (yesterday)to pick a day this week, and she wasn't around, her roomate said she wasn't there (very possible.)

 

Now, I wanna do something between this huge 3-week interval, but don't want to appear pushy...she just got out of a long-term relationship, and is a little hurt still. I called 2 nights in a row now, and she wasn't home. I don't want to be a stalker, ya know what I mean? The thing is I feel I should see her before then, and she did say she'd go to dinner (or is she blowing me off now?)

 

A good friend of mine feels that I already have an "anchor" of the committment to go to the show in a couple of weeks, and should lay kind of low...let her see that I'm busy too, and sort of play a little hard-to-get. He feels that I will always have the solid anchor of the show, so I can use this time to sort of Play with her head, so to speak. I think I agree with him, do you??

 

I don't leave messages when I call, and she doesn't have my #. We have definite plans to go to this show, but that's it. What should I do???

 

Sorry I got so long...really like this girl. whaddya think?

 

Thanks, Paulie

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I will definitely have fun tonight I get to take my 2 1/2 year old out. And boy is she excited about getting dressed up and especially the CANDY!!!

 

Well I hope everyone has a safe and Happy Halloween!

 

Have Fun!

 

Heather

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You're doing fine, Paulie, and you're receiving good advice from your friend. Lay off a little now. Let her spend a Friday and maybe even Saturday night alone, wishing for a sweet date like you.

 

Next time you get the roommate on the phone try to disarm her with something witty - - be prepared. Maybe you can win the roommate over so she'll be pulling for you too.

 

It sounds promising, Paulie, but I think you have rightly picked up on some hesitancy on her part. Patience on your behalf may help her out tremendously, but keep Tony's game plan in mind too.... make her want to share the fun you are having in your life.

 

My best wishes and hopes are with you; please keep me updated.

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