dunno31 Posted September 21, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2012 my husband has obsession with internet stripers, even chosing them over me on nite. It is really a kick in the stomach to me and has sent me on a downward spiral. Wot do i do? Do i try to stop him or not? I am so so upset.Its tied in with poker, my arguement is that he can play poker without the stripers, but he doesn't. HELP PLEASE. Link to post Share on other sites
Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Offer to play with him, naked. Ask him to play naked with you naked. In between hands do something sexual to him that he would never expect you do. Don't be a nag, get aligned with him and be a bit of a bad girl, even though I am sure you are a very nice woman. If nothing else you will change his thought process. Good luck. Apparently since no one had an affair, the group here is ignoring you. Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamless Sleep Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I'm not entirely clear on what you are trying to say. If his attention is on-line and not on you it's time to reconnect. It takes two in the relationship. What is it that he gets from internet strippers? (I'm not sure what you mean by 'internet strippers and poker) What is it you desire from him? Are there other issues with communication or intimacy in your relationship? Have you asked him what this is about, what he enjoys or told him how you feel? Some people turn to internet entertainment because it lacks the rejection and work that real life relationships involve. I hope you can work it out. Link to post Share on other sites
tom3.1415 Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 I agree with the other posters. More info is also needed. Like how is your sex life? He obviously enjoys women who perform exotic dancing/stripping so couldn't you start with seeing if you can you can be the one who does that? When I was married we had a similar problem, except my wife wasn't too bothered by me looking at women online. But occasionally she would mention it, mainly when she would complain about not having enough sex. But to be honest she was so conservative sexually it became a turn-off. By that I mean she was very passive and quiet during foreplay and sex. She didn't have it in her to act exotic and seduce me. It could be as simple as staring your partner in the eyes while pushing them down onto the couch and undoing their belt ect... y'know being really into it. However, of all the married guys I know, a very high % do use internet porn at least sometimes. I do sympathize with you anyway, I would be jealous if my wife was watching male strippers regularly. But if I really was into the relationship I would also try to make myself look like a male stripper. Link to post Share on other sites
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