tpandrews Posted September 21, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2012 About a month ago me & my gf split, since then we have carried on talking and meeting up but it's been kept secret from everyone in her life. We have a kind of 'friends with benefits' relationship now but she knows I want more, I've made it clear on more than one occasion. In the last week or so she's been inviting me round to help with things. The most notable was helping her Mum move house which was a chance to get back in the good books of the in-laws. Everything went fine and then when it was time for me to go back to my place she made a few jobs up for me to do that meant I had to stay a bit longer and this lasted for just over a week. At the beginning of the week our interaction was very much like FWB. Outrageous flirting, drinking and sex. As the week went on she started to cuddle up to me on the sofa watching tv, rolled over to face me in bed, stay in bed in the morning and have a cup of tea together, all the things we used to do when we were a couple. When I eventually had to leave, she gave me a massive hug but lingered for quite a while. The night before I left, I told her I loved her. It made her smile but I got nothing back. That's fine, I'd rather her not say anything than lie. My question really is about her behaviour. She's not one for discussing her feelings, in a sense she's more of a man than me!! So do i read from her behaviour that she is preparing her mind for taking me back? She's started calling me darling when I'm in her company and now her family and a few of her friends know I'm back. The big one she's worried about is her colleagues finding out as she doesn't want to be known as the one who took back a cheater (even though I don't classify what I did as bad as cheating). Be great to know your thoughts on this one. If you want to know any more I'll be happy to answer reasonable questions. Link to post Share on other sites
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