TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Well she had zero to do with building anything, but she is my kids mother, she has been with me for 30 years and there is some much material comfort we have acheived. She would only get half of what she would be able to find, but it is substantial. Just because I am critical doesn't mean I don't love her. Have you ever been in a realtionship Tara? If you have you must have very thin skin if you have never gotten any inputs for improvement or don't expect any criticism. I live in the real world sweetheart. Three marriages, two children. Yes, I've been round the block a few times, and as for the real world - 'sweetheart' - I've been there, seen the move and eaten the pie. Don't patronise me. I may have had three marriages, but I've never lied to anyone, and gone behind my spouse's back. Like you have. So what would you like to criticise? I have thick skin, and frankly, more integrity and dignity in my little finger, than you have in your whole body. And as far as I'm concerned, I'd rather that, any day, than be a cheating liar with zero respect for the mother of my children. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Originally Posted by Sauron You seem to be completely wrong about so many things. Ooooh.. is this a case of Pot, kettle and black...? I do believe it is....! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'm getting confused...you say you love your wife, yet you go behind her back, engage in behavior that has the potential to be very hurtful towards her ( and let's be honest...it's more than just this one other woman...you've said so yourself) and is at best disrespectful towards her, and say the only reason you stay married to her is because of money? Now please explain to me how any of that equates with love? I love my wife, I love my money,so I keep my wife. Hope that helps. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 so while you were working away, what was she doing? was she a stay at home mom? did she work too? did she keep your house in a decent state? I really wonder, if she were asked, what she would have to say about you...would she view you the way you view her? She would acknowledge my many accomplishments, she would acknowledge my money making abilities. Early on I did quite a lot of the house work, kid bathing, cooking, whatever. She worked on her education. She would say she took care of the domestic side, and she did, just not very well. Last 20 years, housekeeper does it all. And all the while not interested in sex very often. But that's water under the bridge for me, as I said I found a solution. And regardless of her flaws I do love and care about her. I have actually shared that with my OW and OOW. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 My answer obviously hit a nerve. If you can't handle the responses, then you shouldn't be creating threads asking for everyone's opinions. And you can always put people on "hide" if other people's responses stress you. Yes, you are all making me feel bad, I am afraid you may hurt my feelings, you are so mean Alice and intimidating:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Ooooh.. is this a case of Pot, kettle and black...? I do believe it is....! Well Tara, do you feel and love for you 3 ex husbands? We you ever seeing one while ending it with the other? Didi you sleep with them only one at a time or was their over lap? And if there was over lap I wonder if you told them. I beyt I know what your answer will be. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 But you love your money MORE than you love your wife. Which is why you've hidden it, and won't divorce her - because you're scared of losing it. The love of Money is the root of all evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. " Says so. Right there. And with regard to 'Faith', St Paul states in Corinthians, that these qualities you must develop: "Faith hope and Love, but the greatest of these - is Love." so, some people, eager for money (that would be you) have wandered from Love and pierced themselves with many griefs" if the cap fits, wear it. You're a conniving, profiteering manipulative coward who only 'loves' his wife in order to not part with his money - but enjoys screwing other women because he feels it's justifiable and 'payback' for his wife's low libido. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 But you love your money MORE than you love your wife. Which is why you've hidden it, and won't divorce her - because you're scared of losing it. The love of Money is the root of all evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. " Says so. Right there. And with regard to 'Faith', St Paul states in Corinthians, that these qualities you must develop: "Faith hope and Love, but the greatest of these - is Love." so, some people, eager for money (that would be you) have wandered from Love and pierced themselves with many griefs" if the cap fits, wear it. You're a conniving, profiteering manipulative coward who only 'loves' his wife in order to not part with his money - but enjoys screwing other women because he feels it's justifiable and 'payback' for his wife's low libido. Not religious, but thanks. And isn't the Christian thing to do to hate the sin but love the sinner? I don't think you love me at all Tara. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Well Tara, do you feel and love for you 3 ex husbands? 2 ex-husbands. and no. We you ever seeing one while ending it with the other? No. Didi you sleep with them only one at a time or was their over lap? do you mean "Did you sleep with them one at a time or was THERE overlap?" No. And if there was over lap I wonder if you told them. as I didn't, your question is academic. I bet I know what your answer will be. You'd bet wrong. because you're judging me form your own level of integrity....Judging others by your low standards, is not a good starting point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 And this is the typical OW translation: I love my wife (He's loves her, but he's not IN LOVE with her) I love my money (We can't be together because he doesn't want to lose everything he's worked so hard to earn) OW never wants to be togther like you are referencing. And we are already together the way we want. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Not religious, but thanks. And isn't the Christian thing to do to hate the sin but love the sinner? I don't think you love me at all Tara. I'm not a Christian. but I know what moral values are. Which is sadly, more than you do. You wouldn't know moral values if they beat you round the head with a porn video. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'm glad my posts don't stress you out. But if they start to make you anxious, you can put me on hide. I'll understand. I would never put anyone on hide, and I doubt you will cause any anxiousness. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 that's 'anxiety'.... if you know how to make love as well as you know how to form sentences...... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 I'm not a Christian. but I know what moral values are. Which is sadly, more than you do. You wouldn't know moral values if they beat you round the head with a porn video. Thats actually quite funny. And I suppose you can pull religious quotes from the bible and deny Christ. That really is a bit hypocritical Tara, although I think a lot of that exists here. I love my women, and will continue to do so. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 that's 'anxiety'.... if you know how to make love as well as you know how to form sentences...... Well, that's stooping a bit low, I admit that word processoers and wireless keyboards have made me a bad speller at times. But really, spelling. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Ah. the 'Hypocrisy' word. Coming from one who practises it at first hand. Sir I salute you, it's the first honest thing you've said. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Well, that's stooping a bit low, I admit that word processoers and wireless keyboards have made me a bad speller at times. But really, spelling. You've never heard of 'spell checker', then? And how come you keep spelling F**K as 'Love'? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sauron Posted September 22, 2012 Author Share Posted September 22, 2012 Tara just curious, have you been on here all day? You know tha's probably not healhy. I do find that this is more of an interesting place than I would have thought it would be. I hope you have a real life other than behind your computer. Link to post Share on other sites
Stephanie Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Once I got past a few posts, almost every single one of them violated the civility & respect portion of the guidelines. I'm not going to spend time cleaning up a thread that is mainly about insulting one another. Thread closed. Link to post Share on other sites
SidLyon Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Once I got past a few posts, almost every single one of them violated the civility & respect portion of the guidelines. I'm not going to spend time cleaning up a thread that is mainly about insulting one another. Thread closed. I agree but you forgot to lock it! Link to post Share on other sites
Stephanie Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I agree but you forgot to lock it! LOL it's been a long week NOW the thread is closed! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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