Taramere Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 The women now in their 30s or 40s who are no longer getting attention on a regular basis, but once did back in their 20s deserve this treatment and I really don't care how much appreciative it is to them now. It seems like it has become payback time for some. Learn to appreciate any attention the man gives you, period. Have you been tracking the lives of this group of women in their 30s or 40s who are under discussion? Are we talking about one of those tv programmes that revisits a group of people every few years to see how they're doing? Or are you just making up nonsense about a hypothetical band of women of a certain age, in order to justify being unpleasant to/about any female in that category? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Titanwolf Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I just want to point out the male equivalent He's 40 Link to post Share on other sites
F.R.E.D Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Tottaly YES, currently i'm approaching this women she's somewhere 25-27 or maybe even 30.. and i made a thread about her. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/347264-older-women-younger-guy-can-work-out Here's the link. And by the way, date me please o.O Link to post Share on other sites
NoMoreJerks Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I'm 29, and men still hit on me. That said, I've only had 1 guy who wanted to date me (turned him down as I was not interested in him that way), and a few who have hit on me and wanted to have sex. That said, I wasn't approached much in my early 20s either, in no small part because I never gave any signals that I was interested, didn't socialize a lot, etc. My friend who is 24, was dating a 35-year-old girl and wanted a LTR with her. Link to post Share on other sites
GirlontheLam Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I just want to point out the male equivalent He's 40 Wow, I didn't realize he was 39. I guess that makes sense, as I assumed he was my age or older. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Yes, attractive people will always get the attention, but after a certain age, and more often than not, it's negative attention. Tons of attractive women still looking after years because every guy seems to be looking for one thing- yup, sex. That's the curse of the attractive 30 or 40-something and above...does he want me for me or because I am hot and therefore for the sex... It's funny that you think this is a 30 something curse. As a woman I can tell you this curse started in early twenties for me and my friends. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jobaba Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I just want to point out the male equivalent He's 40 Damn. He looks good for 39. Someone who isn't nearly as fortunate... Google Image Result for http://cdn.ph.upi.com/sv/i/UPI-93501316098698/2011/1/13161011707247/Mom-allegedly-killed-over-Avril-Lavigne-tickets.jpg Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Well you girls most have not been that good looking in your teens. So you don't count. Look who's talking? The guy who just admitted he's a short ugly guy with no personality lol sorry dude, I can see why you're on internet masking hateful posts though, must really suck to be you. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I suspect most of the men posting can't get attractive women of any age. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 Don't be a jerk. I was just telling you the truth, hot girls get hit on all the time. Especially when they are out of high school. It sounds like you weren't hit on cause till guys became desperate cause there were no longer any available hot girls in your place. You misunderstood her comment. She was saying that she does get hit on a lot, and cannot distinguish between whether they just want her for sex or not - thus the 30 something curse, which isn't really a 30 something curse in some demographics. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Mateo A. Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 If we're talking strictly about physical appearances: a woman who knows how to take care of herself, health wise, will look good well into their 70s. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 You misunderstood her comment. She was saying that she does get hit on a lot, and cannot distinguish between whether they just want her for sex or not - thus the 30 something curse, which isn't really a 30 something curse in some demographics. I thought it was obvious what I meant. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 I thought it was obvious what I meant. So did I 1 Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Its a slow transition honestly your looks are probably all gone by now. Just no one wants to tell you that you are ugly on the outside. But look on the bright side of things at least you can be beautiful on the inside! Lol well how about this, I'll send ya photos of myself and you can tell me if I'm ugly and in exchange you send me a photo of you holding your latest bank statement 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted September 24, 2012 Author Share Posted September 24, 2012 I feel better about approaching 30 now...i still have a few years to go Link to post Share on other sites
suladas Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 If we're talking strictly about physical appearances: a woman who knows how to take care of herself, health wise, will look good well into their 70s. I think 70 is a bit of a stretch! I've never been in a old folks him and been like "I'd hit that". I guess if your near that age maybe, but 50's is the limit were i'd consider a women still good looking, once you hit 6 it's over for me. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Jane Fonda is a great example of being fit, sexy, productive and funny at the age of 75. Watch the interview and see what she says about sex. Most women half her age don't look half as good. Link to post Share on other sites
suladas Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Holy crap she looks good for 75. But ya too old for me to find attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
GoneToCode Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I always liked older women. Most younger women just aren't that interesting to me Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 once you hit 60 it's over for me. Jaclyn Smith Diane Sawyer Joanna Lumley (of Ab Fab) I think they're all around 66. When you take care of yourself and stay current with fashions, you can look far better than most people the same age. That goes for both men and women. Link to post Share on other sites
suladas Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 They definitely look good for their age. It's probably more the fact they have over 40 years on me that makes them not attractive to me.... Link to post Share on other sites
Titania22 Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Jaclyn Smith Diane Sawyer Joanna Lumley (of Ab Fab) I think they're all around 66. When you take care of yourself and stay current with fashions, you can look far better than most people the same age. That goes for both men and women. But to be fair, they are all wearing makeup. It just strengthens the idea that women (especially as they age) only look attractive when they hide under layers of product. Link to post Share on other sites
GoneToCode Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 But to be fair, they are all wearing makeup. It just strengthens the idea that women (especially as they age) only look attractive when they hide under layers of product. I think some women even young look only good with makeup. Did you watch Big Brother at all? Jeanell and Daniel looked like two totally different chicks without makeup. I swear, i thought daniel was a totally different person that entered the house that I didnt know about. Anyway, my point is, there are some good looking older women that dont need to rely on makeup to look good. Link to post Share on other sites
Titania22 Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I think some women even young look only good with makeup. Did you watch Big Brother at all? Jeanell and Daniel looked like two totally different chicks without makeup. I swear, i thought daniel was a totally different person that entered the house that I didnt know about. Anyway, my point is, there are some good looking older women that dont need to rely on makeup to look good. Bo I didn't. I don't watch TV. But I don't disagree, I do think women look better with makeup. I more just feel kind of annoyed, that there seem to be so many men that will say they prefer women without makeup, but also seem to only notice the women who are wearing the makeup. I have nothing against FitChick or the women she linked. They look great for their age. I also feel annoyed that it seems the only way to compete is to likewise douse myself in makeup, and I don't want to, because I feel like ME gets lost somewhere underneath it all, and I would like someone to like ME, not whoever this person is (on the surface) who attracted them. If that make sense. Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 (edited) Bo I didn't. I don't watch TV. But I don't disagree, I do think women look better with makeup. I more just feel kind of annoyed, that there seem to be so many men that will say they prefer women without makeup, but also seem to only notice the women who are wearing the makeup. I have nothing against FitChick or the women she linked. They look great for their age. I also feel annoyed that it seems the only way to compete is to likewise douse myself in makeup, and I don't want to, because I feel like ME gets lost somewhere underneath it all, and I would like someone to like ME, not whoever this person is (on the surface) who attracted them. If that make sense. Dont listen to what men say but what they do. In today's dating world, doing your hair and makeup is almost necessary to get a guy, no matter what age you are. Heck, they even put makeup on Kids if they're showing them off somewhere. It's all really messed up. Edited September 24, 2012 by mesmerized Link to post Share on other sites
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