mkb23 Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 I would like to preface this with how awkward I am as a person and as potential "girlfriend material." I am 23 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. But anyway there is this guy that I met through work and I've recently realized how well we get along. When we are working together, I feel like we both are just constantly laughing. I feel so comfortable with him, and usually I feel awkward around people, especially guys. He is also just a good guy in general, always going out of his way for other people. He has a girlfriend, who I am not great friends with, but I've talked to her and I really like her. She is beautiful too, and as far as I know, their relationship is strong/steady. This guy kind of flirts with me, and I would assume it's all in good fun. But he has said some things that make me think. He said that I was his favorite person to work with (and he has some pretty good friends that work with us) and he has joked about "giving his number" to me. He has recently become much more touchy feely with me too. I think this is kind of his personality, as he is just comfortable around people in general, but I can't help but think that we have really good chemistry. And I don't necessarily want to date him or anything. Honestly I probably would if he didn't have a girlfriend, but I try not to let myself go there. But the thing is that I am quitting my job, as I am moving forward professionally, and I don't want to lose him. I think we could be really good friends. But this is where the awkward thing really comes in I guess. I want to tell him I still want to hang out, but I don't want him to think I am imposing on his relationship or something. So I guess what I'm asking is A) How can we become friends outside of our job and B) What's with all the flirting?
kae Posted September 24, 2012 Posted September 24, 2012 Move On without him. He has a gilrfriend. And all you do is lie to yourself and play wait for him to break up with her. Not Cool. Also when one door closes another opens... there are plenty of good cool guys!! maybe ask him to be a facebook friend but never contact him.. but you`ll have him .. if.. You are 23.. make yourself feel comfortable and secure to be yourself around anyone. mingle!!
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