TrueSmiles12 Posted July 26, 2004 Share Posted July 26, 2004 I am posting again regarding my previous post: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t43786/ I was hoping I could get some more detailed insight as to what I should do and what is going on... Should I just continue letting things be the way they are and not saying anything? Say something and have that awful chance of hearing something I do not want to hear? Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
ringo Posted July 26, 2004 Share Posted July 26, 2004 People always say, "what you don't know won't hurt you".... but it does, because sooner or later it will come back to bite you. Whether you have something to come clean about to someone else and are afraid to because you know it will hurt them.... don't. TELL THE TRUTH FOR THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE. Lies can hurt worse than the actual truth behind the lies. Lies prove disrespect.... If you want to know something from someone else, then ask. If you are afraid that what they tell you will hurt you.... then you'll have to do with it. But you can't go on wondering, 'What if's" and such and such. You want to know... ask.... once you have the truth... then you deal from there.... Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovebird Posted July 26, 2004 Share Posted July 26, 2004 Stop making yourself crazy. You need to ask in a nice way just what is on his mind. Life is too short to allow yourself to go through this. You also have to decide what you really want, not just miss or need, but would be happy with. Then when you get your answer, you can respond appropriately. If he just wants to just be friends, could you handle it? I know I couldn't. Does he still love you and want to try again? Link to post Share on other sites
Author TrueSmiles12 Posted July 27, 2004 Author Share Posted July 27, 2004 Can anybody help me with how to go about doing this please? I'm so lost with my words and I really don't want to seem so overanalytical. What kind of questions would you ask? How do you ask them?? I'm still hesitant about doing this, ps. Link to post Share on other sites
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