dmmm Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 By loser guys I mean those who (like myself) just don't seem to fit for whatever reason. e.g. too shy, reclusive, complete lack of self esteem etc. Are there girls out there like this who I suppose would "settle"? I know the answer is work on yourself. I know getting a gf of any type with these problems wouldn't fix the problems. I also know that even getting into a relationship with a girl with similar problems would more than likely end in disaster. Still, I'd go for it right now. I look online at dating sites and it's all girls who seem highly confident, looking for highly confident outgoing guys. The same in real life, seems to be girls want the outgoing party animal who can be the center of attention. So my question is, are there a similar number of girls, hiding behind their computer screens, just desperate for a bit of company from the opposite sex? If so, how do I find them? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted September 26, 2012 Share Posted September 26, 2012 No, they're short one girl. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kalaslsl Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 I found a girl like that on the internet, and it was the longest and best relationship I've ever had with a girl, it did end up in disaster like you say in your post, but the overall experience was great. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 By loser guys I mean those who (like myself) just don't seem to fit for whatever reason. e.g. too shy, reclusive, complete lack of self esteem etc. Hardly any I know the answer is work on yourself. Exactly. I did it, so can you. You only get one shot in this life. Make every second count. And you can do it in much less time than you think. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Jamesblame Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 Tons of girls with issues. It's just the boobs and butt hides those flaws for a while. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 26, 2012 Share Posted October 26, 2012 I figure that the "loser girls" are physically unattractive and or have something else wrong with them that makes the undesirable. But even then, plenty of those girls are able to find guys willing to date them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
El Brujo Posted November 1, 2012 Share Posted November 1, 2012 Women by definition can't be losers, even if they fail at everything in life. If a woman is rude, ugly, dumb, a lousy lay, can't get a job, etc etc, her XX chromosome prevents her from being a loser. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted November 1, 2012 Share Posted November 1, 2012 Women by definition can't be losers, even if they fail at everything in life. If a woman is rude, ugly, dumb, a lousy lay, can't get a job, etc etc, her XX chromosome prevents her from being a loser. Though she might still and try convince you 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nik1 Posted November 1, 2012 Share Posted November 1, 2012 Yeah, but they're usually fat or have some kind of borderline deformity. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 1, 2012 Share Posted November 1, 2012 Women by definition can't be losers, even if they fail at everything in life. If a woman is rude, ugly, dumb, a lousy lay, can't get a job, etc etc, her XX chromosome prevents her from being a loser. That's not true. There are tons of women who are losers too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ben132333 Posted November 1, 2012 Share Posted November 1, 2012 Well first of all you assume attractive women are harder to get than those "loser" women... it's nonsense, they both got the same wiring, the same desires, ... So if you can't make the attractive one happy, you're also not going to be able to make the "loser girl" happy... plus indeed, it will probably end in disaster... The answer is work on yourself (start by putting your standards higher!!)... It will improve all areas in your life... There is no reason you can't learn to attract the most desired women on this planet... it's just a skill most men are not willing to put time in (or believe it is not possible) Start by going here to improve yourself... I was an introverted physics student, virgin at 20... Now I reinvented myself and have very attractive women that don't leave me alone... A friend of mine once said 'there are aabout a 1000 supermodel-hot, intelligent, emotionally mature women for every guy who *gets it*"... That's how rare it is for a woman to find a great guy... So you're not off that bad ... And if you put the work in, you can end up as a very happy man... (and you'll laugh when you read this post again some time from now)... (And your looks, income and so on don't matter if you create an attractive personality... really...) With just little improvement you'll be meeting women you now consider above your leage... stop making excuses for yourself... you can start visitting my blog: Getting Her Number Hope this helps Link to post Share on other sites
ForeverlovingRami Posted November 6, 2012 Share Posted November 6, 2012 Let your posetive thoughts take over the bad ones.. Start working out, take walks do stuff. Get out there and move around, I swear u'll meet one sooner or later. If u think u want something REALLY much you'll get it! Trust me I've used law of attraction in life and it gave me alot, remember. It takes alot of bad thoughts to make them manifest but it takes just 1 good thought to wipe the bad ones out! So, think posetive strive in life and u'll get your reward 1 Link to post Share on other sites
VodkaShots Posted November 14, 2012 Share Posted November 14, 2012 Well first of all you assume attractive women are harder to get than those "loser" women... it's nonsense, they both got the same wiring, the same desires, ... So if you can't make the attractive one happy, you're also not going to be able to make the "loser girl" happy... plus indeed, it will probably end in disaster... The answer is work on yourself (start by putting your standards higher!!)... It will improve all areas in your life... There is no reason you can't learn to attract the most desired women on this planet... it's just a skill most men are not willing to put time in (or believe it is not possible) Start by going here to improve yourself... I was an introverted physics student, virgin at 20... Now I reinvented myself and have very attractive women that don't leave me alone... A friend of mine once said 'there are aabout a 1000 supermodel-hot, intelligent, emotionally mature women for every guy who *gets it*"... That's how rare it is for a woman to find a great guy... So you're not off that bad ... And if you put the work in, you can end up as a very happy man... (and you'll laugh when you read this post again some time from now)... (And your looks, income and so on don't matter if you create an attractive personality... really...) With just little improvement you'll be meeting women you now consider above your leage... stop making excuses for yourself... you can start visitting my blog: Getting Her Number Hope this helps I don't even have to click your blog to figure out it's the same kind of PUA rubbish you find literally everywhere on the internet. Suggesting that there's "thousands of super-model material women" for every man (no matter how unattractive or broke he is) just as long as he does X, Y and Z defies logic and common sense. It's actually delusion.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
allenpo123 Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 Even IF you really are a loser guy, and you meet a loser girl, I don't think you'd like her. If you are both complaining about being losers, the relationship would be boring and not healthy. IDK, but you might feel more confident with a loser girl. Good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
rdb Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 I don't understand why you'd want to get into a relationship when you obviously have a lot of things on your own plate that need to be sorted out. But I assure you, like-minded people of the opposite sex exist. Although finding someone who dislikes social contact is a tall task. Think of places where someone has to go that you also go to, and that is probably where you'll find them. Also, online sites are full of them. You just need to look at the profiles you probably passed over the first time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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