robaday Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 How can I get a friend with benefits without hurting anyone. Is there a certain vibe, signal that I should give off. Ive told girls Im not looking for anything serious before, but that seems to have the opposite effect to what I intended. Essentially I have this female friend. Weve hooked up twice over say 2 months. Shes got a long term ex who she still sees, and while they are broken up they arent if you know what i mean - he broke it off but still hangs around. Shes a cool girl. I like hanging out with her, but couldnt see myself with her seriously. And because I respect her, Im not sure how to go about having a friends with benefits with her. Im pretty sure shes not after anything serious either. Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 Where did this idea come from that girls only want relationships? Some girls just want to get ****ed. Tell her this: "I gotta say I think you're a cool chick. I like our situation. We're just having some fun." Everyone in the dating world knows what "having fun" is code for. Judging by her reaction, you'll know if she's down or not. Link to post Share on other sites
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