Author AnotherRound Posted September 30, 2012 Author Share Posted September 30, 2012 It throughly amazed me. Still does. I doubt I will ever understand that sort of true psychosis. Pity... that. It still flummoxes me that I allowed myself to invite that into our lives...shiver! If you don't mind my asking, since you are the FWH, how did you handle it if the exOW showed up or did things but it wasn't enough for a RO? My exMMs exgf (the OW after me), has been fishing a little with me, but nothing concrete enough to get a RO or anything on my end of it. ExMM just wants to forget her and avoids her like the plague bc of the way she has acted. How would you handle this if you were exMM? (I know it's a stretch, but if you can try to imagine hypothetically, lol) ExMM has contacted me as he is finalizing his divorce and is interested in having a relationship with me after it is finalized (I broke up with him last year, in April). But now, the OW he had after me (he dated her for a few months) is the one who is starting to possibly be trying to engage me in some interactions. Ideas? Thoughts? Perspectives from your side as the FWH? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
woinlove Posted September 30, 2012 Share Posted September 30, 2012 (edited) In order for her to have been arrested - 1. she would have had to have been on school property. Our schools are in residential areas, and you can stand across the street all day long while parents pick their children up. and 2. the stbxw would have had to call someone or do something - she is VERY passive and simply got in her car with their child and drove away. She never called the police when the exgf showed up at their home either! I'm with you... I would have handled that quickly, especially if my child was there. I guess the stbxw didn't feel that her child's safety needed protecting? I don't understand it either. From what you describe sounds like stbxw was smart and looking out for her child by leaving. Not sure why you are posting suggesting her being a bad mother based on a positive action? Edited September 30, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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