What is the male equivalent of this?

[SJC2008]

^What jobaba bolded before is what indicates how you give away all the power to women. You view her as higher than you.

 

I dont view chicks in such a way. I know Im cute, I know Im smart, I know Im funny, I know I have a good body, I know how to take care of a lady, and I know I have solid plans for the future...hence I know Im the shhit, and would make a woman feel wonderful to be with me.

 

I dont say "She could probabaly get most men that she want's. I don't even shoot for women like her I know where I stand." This sentence being partly false anyway...seeing as its easy for any decently attractive woman to get a sizable portion of neanderthals to sleep with her. Getting a solid boyfriend for a relationship is a whole different story.

 

The bold just sounds pathetic.

 

I'm at least 45 pounds over weight Kaylan. Just becase I know a woman with a body like that probably wouldn't date me becase I'm heavy set doesn't mean I give my power to them or that I put her higher than me,it's being realistic. I've never been skinny and have always been a little chunky and sometimes more. The woman I went out with last week was too big for my taste but it doesn't mean I'm better than her or too good for her. Men who give women like that power are the ones who treat them like goddesses and worship the ground they walk on and I'd never do that.

Edited September 29, 2012 by SJC2008

[sweetheart5381]

Surgery and tanning?

 

Most women can not naturally have large breasts and a small waist. Hence, most women will not be able to have that woman's figure.

 

There is nothing a man can do to be physically attractive to 80% of women. Women aren't wired that way.

 

Closest thing I can think of: make a lot of money. You'll have your pick of shallow women.

 

Sadly, that's true of my gender.

 

Though there are some women that make their own money and proud of it too, even if it isn't as much or a lot to some folks.

[Titanwolf]

Is she something special?. Where I'm from, that's considered average

[sweetheart5381]

I personally refuse to even look at the photo.

 

Judging one by their appearance on a screen takes so much away from them as a person.

 

She may have a beautiful face, a beautiful personality, who knows now... all I can apparently see by this post is that she only viewed as a body by most which is far less than any human deserves, imo.

[CptObvious]

I don't find her that attractive, too orange, too toned/built up, and her tits look kinda saggy.

 

It just makes me shake my head that most men find this to be really attractive.

 

elbows too pointy

 

2/10 at best

 

wud not bang

[mesmerized]

This thread and your idiocy makes me angry! So a woman has to abuse her skin and health and go under surgery to be attractive to men and that to you is just nothing???

 

Btw I have the body of that woman naturally (small waist, big chest, and that's rare) except the tan and I don't think that's enough for a woman to be successful in dating.

[GirlontheLam]

Blah Blah Blah....blond, white, tan ..........

[Negative Nancy]

Men cannot control their height.

 

 

 

I repeat. There's nothing on that woman in that picture that cannot be worked for or bought.

 

ANY AVERAGE BODIED WOMAN CAN LOOK LIKE THAT!

 

No, you even acknowledged in your OP that some women can only look like that with surgery, i.e. implants.

 

So I say, men can have height surgery too then.

[MilitantPacifist]

I think it really boils down to confidence. I've had girl friends (and by that I mean, chicks who are my friends but not my girlfriends) that have dated the ugliest, fattest, most disgusting dudes I've ever seen, and seemed to be blissfully aware of it and fawning over them.

 

I could never figure it out, until I realized that those dudes actually believed they were catnip to the ladies.

 

So essentially, you can bag any chick you want, as long as you believe you can. Which is a vicious circle because you're never going to have that kind of confidence *until* you've bagged a few chicks way out of your league. And since you don't have that confidence, you'll never get with even one...

 

How other guys manage to fall into that zone is beyond me. It's sheer dumb luck as far as I can tell.

 

Oh, and having a nice car and lots of cash is the other method. You can be shy awkward and lame and they'll still throw themselves at you.

[Necromancer]

I think it really boils down to confidence. I've had girl friends (and by that I mean, chicks who are my friends but not my girlfriends) that have dated the ugliest, fattest, most disgusting dudes I've ever seen, and seemed to be blissfully aware of it and fawning over them.

 

I could never figure it out, until I realized that those dudes actually believed they were catnip to the ladies.

 

So essentially, you can bag any chick you want, as long as you believe you can. Which is a vicious circle because you're never going to have that kind of confidence *until* you've bagged a few chicks way out of your league. And since you don't have that confidence, you'll never get with even one...

 

How other guys manage to fall into that zone is beyond me. It's sheer dumb luck as far as I can tell.

 

Oh, and having a nice car and lots of cash is the other method. You can be shy awkward and lame and they'll still throw themselves at you.

 

confidence only works if she "likes your looks a little" otherwise your dead in the water.

 

No hot girl is going to be with a fat and uggy guy because he is confident (witch most of them ain't).

[MilitantPacifist]

confidence only works if she "likes your looks a little" otherwise your dead in the water.

 

No hot girl is going to be with a fat and uggy guy because he is confident (witch most of them ain't).

 

I don't know man. Hasn't been my experience based on what I've seen. But of course those could just be rare exceptions.

[xxoo]

See, guys like you and 80% of other guys are what give women the power. A halfway decent body, some bleach, some boobies, and some tops from Forever 21, and all of a sudden she's a GODDESS!

 

It really pisses me off when I think about it.

 

Men are attracted attracted to women's bodies.

 

In other news, snow is white.

 

Why does this piss you off? It pisses you off that women are wanted by men? You are fighting the most base human biology here!

 

Put your energy somewhere more productive, like developing the social skills that women are attracted to.

[xxoo]

Btw I have the body of that woman naturally (small waist, big chest, and that's rare) except the tan and I don't think that's enough for a woman to be successful in dating.

 

That's a good point.

 

Men want to have sex with the woman in the picture, but they don't necessarily want to have a relationship with her. That takes much more than the physical.

[Eternal Sunshine]

HA ha ha ha.

 

No, not any woman can look like that at all.

 

Firstly let's skip the surgery, it's costly, risks your health and men could have height surgery too. I have seen it on TV

 

Naturally, having proportions like that woman (which is genetics and something you CAN"T help) - is rare. She has large boobs (if they are natural), small waist and probably proportionate hips and shoulders.

 

Tanning also majorly risks your health, so to be tanned - you either risk it, or you do it from the bottle (which looks fake and orange BTW, unless you pay tons of $$$ on maintaining the natural looking spray tan). Most women do not have the money or the time for weekly tanning visits.

 

Hair - unless you have hair that is naturally VERY close to blonde (which only small % of women do) - getting that color is a costly and hair destroying process. I have been that color. I had to spend $250 every 6 weeks and nearly FOUR hours at a hair salon just for maintenance. Each time, I endured bleach burning my scalp and eventually, my hair started breaking off and falling out so I had to stop.

 

Bottom line; getting that particular look is NOT easy or simple at all.

 

And even with that look, girl can be perma-single. I have many friends and many gorgeous women on LS who can prove that.

 

There is no edge that women have OP. You need to stop using that as an excuse not to try.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

You have to travel back in time and switch your dad's sperm with this man's:

 

http://i.imgur.com/fK3P2.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/l7nFk.jpg

 

Way too "pretty". I never liked "pretty" guys.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Well I think the woman in the picture is very pretty and I am frankly disturbed by the level of scrutiny us average folks have bestowed on her. Frankly, I would like to see pictures of the people making comments about her body.

 

I mean, in what world does she have to loose 15 pounds or is overweight at all? Seriously, stop looking at the porn. Learn to relate to REAL women on a REAL basis. Stop ripping women and their pictures apart every chance you get just because you got a computer and internet access. Don't any of you actually want to LIVE more than that?

 

And yes, most women don't have huge breasts and tiny waists. Thanks for showing your unrealistic expectations guys!

 

Leave the woman alone. Stop picking her apart. She is beautiful and there is nothing wrong with her. Now if you simply aren't attracted to her, that's fine. I don't get the "her breasts aren't this and she needs to loose weight and she is generic". Geez, you people are freaking mean and judgmental and I bet if you posted pictures of yourselves we could do you the same service.

[xxoo]

Another thing is--she's young. Not all women can look like that, because we don't stay young forever.

 

Especially with the tanning!

 

So, great, 80% of men want to bang her now, but far fewer want to bang her and only her forever (what women want), especially since she's going to look old at 35 from all the tanning she's doing to look hot now.

 

Sounds great!

[tigressA]

Maybe you should take another break from here, OP.

[ThaWholigan]

Maybe you should take another break from here, OP.

Reading some of the BS over the last day or so, I think that's what I'm gonna do!

[Imported]

Way too "pretty". I never liked "pretty" guys.

 

Kinda what most women/men say about guys/girls they know are out of their "league".

[SandRat]

Probably going to show my age with this answer.

 

There is soooooooo much more to a human being than looks!!

 

Ok, I got that off my chest. People need to quit focusing on looks alone. The kind of people, men in this case, that say another is plain, unattractive or otherwise not up to their standards will more than likely end up an old, unfulfilled loner, even if with someone else, you'll simply be empty. And remember, one day YOUR looks will be gone!

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Kinda what most women/men say about guys/girls they know are out of their "league".

 

I don't believe in "leagues".

 

But if you want to box yourself into a narrowly defined cookie-cutter image of leagues and where you think you're suppose to be and where you think others are "suppose to be", have at it. That's not the way I want to live my life.

 

While I subjectively acknowledge the attractiveness of those two men, I am not in the least bit attracted to them. I never liked pretty guys. Don't really know why you find that so offensive. I am certainly no super model but I'm not sure why that matters concerning what I am attracted to.

[FitChick]

Women who go to tanning salons in their twenties will look older in their thirties than I do now, and I am older age wise. One reason I look much younger than my age is because I stayed out of the sun. I wear sunscreen everyday.

 

Men can change their faces. A coworker went on "vacation" and came back looking much different but much better. He had his nose made smaller and his chin bigger. So now he has a more balanced face which is what is attractive. He isn't rich. Said he saved for two years for the surgery and took his time seeing several plastic surgeons until he found one specializing in noses. He isn't much taller than I am and isn't gym buff, but isn't fat either. He is late thirties.

 

Start saving your money and stop complaining.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Jobaba, I was further thinking about this. You freely posted a picture of another woman for judgement and comparison without her permission. How about you post a picture of yourself as well and hold yourself accountable for the same judgement and comparsion to other men?

 

I think there should be a new rule on LS. If you are going to post pictures of regular people without their knowledge or consent to judge and talk about them, then you also should be willing to post pictures of yourself in turn up for the same kind of talk.

 

But I know you won't Jobaba. Because while you are totally okay with doing this to other people, My guess is that you would never want this done to you. Which is why you allow yourself to be faceless and bodyless to us even as you treat other people this way.

 

But prove me wrong. I challenge you to post a picture of yourself with your face scratched out. Treat yourself as you treated this woman in this picture.

[Zed]

This thread and your idiocy makes me angry! So a woman has to abuse her skin and health and go under surgery to be attractive to men and that to you is just nothing???

 

Btw I have the body of that woman naturally (small waist, big chest, and that's rare) except the tan and I don't think that's enough for a woman to be successful in dating.

 

Yeah and a few male posters here flatly stated that she was nothing special. It would take a lot of work for some one (even if they are not white) to look like that without genetics.