Els Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I'm curious what the opinion of the 'it's normal to lust after youth' proponents are about men and aging. If you agree that a 30-y-o woman is by necessity much less attractive than a 20-y-o woman, then is a 30-y-o man also by necessity much less attractive than a 20-y-o man? Aging affects us all unilaterally. If you genuinely believe that all women of your own age are 'not attractive' but believe that you yourself are, I hate to say this, but you definitely have problems. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 how often do you shove peanut butter up your stinky ass? The peanut butter smith should be telling instead of asking. Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I'm curious what the opinion of the 'it's normal to lust after youth' proponents are about men and aging. If you agree that a 30-y-o woman is by necessity much less attractive than a 20-y-o woman, then is a 30-y-o man also by necessity much less attractive than a 20-y-o man? Aging affects us all unilaterally. If you genuinely believe that all women of your own age are 'not attractive' but believe that you yourself are, I hate to say this, but you definitely have problems. Men age differently and better physically. Women are attracted to what takes a male time to come into. The men in hollywood women and teenage girls find most attractive are usually in their 30's-40's. On the other hand, the women in hollywood men and teenage boys find most attractive are usually in their teens and twenties. Sometimes 30's but rarely. This phenomenon is duplicated irl much to the chagrin of aging, age obsessed women. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Men age differently and better physically. Women are attracted to what takes a male time to come into. The men in hollywood women and teenage girls find most attractive are usually in their 30's-40's. On the other hand, the women in hollywood men and teenage boys find most attractive are usually in their teens and twenties. Sometimes 30's but rarely. This phenomenon is duplicated irl much to the chagrin of aging, age obsessed women. Ah, I see. So a 18-year-old girl who says that no man below 30 is attractive to her because they're 'too young' is approaching relationships in a healthy manner as well, and it is what it is? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Ah, I see. So a 18-year-old girl who says that no man below 30 is attractive to her because they're 'too young' is approaching relationships in a healthy manner as well, and it is what it is? You don't like an 18 year old with a thirty year old though it isn't your relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 You don't like an 18 year old with a thirty year old though it isn't your relationship? Answer the question, m'dear. What would your opinion be of a 18-y-o girl who turns down advances from every single man below 30 with the reason being "He's too young so I don't find him attractive?" Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Answer the question, m'dear. What would your opinion be of a 18-y-o girl who turns down advances from every single man below 30 with the reason being "He's too young so I don't find him attractive?" The same one I have of a woman who turns down every man of her own race to date another race. It isn't my business. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Well, then, by that logic, surely my personal opinion is none of your business, either? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Well, then, by that logic, surely my personal opinion is none of your business, either? It is your prerogative to keep your opinions to yourself but let's face it. You aren't the type. Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 i ate three whole lbs of peanut butter last night. i put it in my mouth. you put it up your ass. The true peanut butter smith would know if it was Peter Pan, Smuckers, or generic imitation. You sir are a liar. Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Answer the question, m'dear. What would your opinion be of a 18-y-o girl who turns down advances from every single man below 30 with the reason being "He's too young so I don't find him attractive?" I've met those women, I think they are after a serious relationship and they realize their same age cohorts are not likely to give them one. Sadly they are often tricked by men 16-50 anyway into giving up what the men want without getting the LTR they want. I guess that's the hand of nature. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 DY "knows" lots of men she imagines think this way, however. I know what I know about men based on what I see, hear and read. It's not any more "imagined" then your opinion is and it's insulting to suggest that. Why can't you just debate a point without making it personally insulting? Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 What are you trying to debate with me at this point? Seriously, from what I have read from you today on this thread and what you have posted on other threads tonight, it seems like you got a bur up your back side about something and just want to be combative and argue for the sake of arguing. I thought it was obvious. What exactly are you confused about? I do have a "bur up my backside". But you were saying that to put me dowen a bit Ronin. I thought you were a big different then some of the guys here. Some of the comments a lot of men here make about women are so depressing. It's like most of the guys here just want to put women down. And then, in the midst of all the nasty comments that get made from men on this site, other men have the nerve to say that women are the harsher gender to their own gender. Well I don't see women here insulting other women. I do see a lot of men making so many disparaging comments about women though. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Oxy Moronovich But I bet he would seriously bang them. Message well received Oxy. Younger women are better. Check. LMAO! Sure it is, sweetheart. Sarcastic use of "sweetheart"? Why? Jersey Shortie doesn't have any real point on this board aside from arguing with men about all our failures. She's been up for hours, past midnight, arguing with men about anything. I fail to see how this is something a healthy individual would do. This is what you don't get. This isn't about arguing about men about their failures. It's about getting men to try and understand. By the way, men aren't perfect! Are women suppose to pretend they are and not talk about issues they encounter with men so that it doesn't hurt your ego? Yes, I was on the board a long time last night talking about certain points that I felt for deeply. Now you are criticizing what I do in the late hours of the night? Don't worry Oxy, I don't exactly think you are a very healthy individual. Especially for someone that thinks women don't have close relationships or bond just becaues they don't play sports in the park. Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 (edited) I know what I know about men based on what I see, hear and read. It's not any more "imagined" then your opinion is and it's insulting to suggest that. Why can't you just debate a point without making it personally insulting? DY, it's than, dammit. When you compare two things, it's than. Then is a way to express the order things occur, this happened then this happened. I'm sorry this issue got out of hand before but please try to do it right. When you claim to know what other people are THINKING, it's all in your head. Edited October 9, 2012 by 123321 Link to post Share on other sites
Later82012 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 OP hasn't come back in 10 days. Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 If you don't look too carefully a 7 can look like a 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 DY, it's than, dammit. When you compare two things, it's than. Then is a way to express the order things occur, this happened then this happened. I'm sorry this issue got out of hand before but please try to do it right. When you claim to know what other people are THINKING, it's all in your head. I do try to do it right! I don't purposely make f*ck-ups. But I don't need an English lesson from you. There are many posts I've made recently where I used "than" correctly. Don't get on my ass just because I don't always use it right. If you don't like it, don't read it. But stop giving me "lessons". I never asked for them from you. And I don't deserve to be degraded for it either. And I sure as heck hope that wasn't your apology. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 If you don't look too carefully a 7 can look like a 1 I would like to know where this rating scale first came from. This seems to be a realitively new thing in the past few years where it's become popular to specifically rate women on scales of 1-10. This is another element in talking about who is harsher judges of women. Men aren't rating women on scales from 1-10 because they are kind in their judgements of women. And I see way more men use this rating scale vs women. Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I do try to do it right! I don't purposely make f*ck-ups. And I'm here to assist you in breaking that nasty habit. You are welcome in advance. And I sure as heck hope that wasn't your apology. When I say sorry, it's what we in English speaking lands like to call an apology. So yes, sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 And I'm here to assist you in breaking that nasty habit. You are welcome in advance. I am not thanking you for anything and I don't need you for anything and if you keep picking on me for it I am going to start purposely doing it wrong. I never asked or wanted help from you. You are not here to "assist" me and I don't want your assistance. Find someone else to "help" if that's what you are looking for. When I say sorry, it's what we in English speaking lands like to call an apology. So yes, sorry. What are you sorry for? Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I would like to know where this rating scale first came from. This seems to be a realitively new thing in the past few years where it's become popular to specifically rate women on scales of 1-10. This is another element in talking about who is harsher judges of women. Men aren't rating women on scales from 1-10 because they are kind in their judgements of women. And I see way more men use this rating scale vs women. I wasn't referring to a scale but the ages in the thread title. The scale has existed since at least the 70's with Bo Derek starring in 10. Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 I am not thanking you for anything and I don't need you for anything and if you keep picking on me for it I am going to start purposely doing it wrong. D, if you look in post #95 I was actually helpful, I decided last night to try a different tack. Perhaps I should have announced that. Not gentle, but helpful. We all make a misteak hear or their butt if its consistant its distrecting. What are you sorry for? As I said, I regret returning unkindness with unkindness, particularly since I took it and multiplied it before returning it. I am fairly sure you don't see anything you ever say as unkind so let's just go with "I regret anything non-helpful I said in correcting your grammar" and leave it at that. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 It is your prerogative to keep your opinions to yourself but let's face it. You aren't the type. Really, should the 18-y-o girls in relationships with 30-y-o men sneak around in hiding to prevent people from seeing them, then? Because last I checked, the opinion of mine that you are responding to was not directed to you; it simply exists, as do those relationships. Now go back to the comfy abode beneath your bridge, please. I've met those women, I think they are after a serious relationship and they realize their same age cohorts are not likely to give them one. Sadly they are often tricked by men 16-50 anyway into giving up what the men want without getting the LTR they want. I guess that's the hand of nature. That must be new; I don't know a single 18-y-o girl who solely goes after men twice her age and claims that all the men close to her age are completely unattractive and too young for her, simply because she wants a serious relationship. You're right that it would make no difference, though, and I hope any who do contemplate the prospect realize that. At any rate, while I can certainly understand personal preference, I have serious doubts about the emotional health of someone who perpetually has degrading things to say about the opposite gender of their own age. It reflects either poor self-esteem and denial, or delusionary narcissism. This goes for 18-y-o women as well as 40-yo men. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Really, should the 18-y-o girls in relationships with 30-y-o men sneak around in hiding to prevent people from seeing them, then? What world do you live in that an 18 year old is keeping her relationship such a closely guarded secret? Link to post Share on other sites
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