Is he cheating?

[kaylarose]

Anyone have a comment on this:

 

Used our computer to check resturant info and afterwards decided to check my e-mail. His was already logged in - saw a message reply from adultfriendfinder.com. Decided to check it out. Used his e-mail and pw to see what it was. Didnt really see much like free chat/naked girls etc. But what I didn't like was he put in a personal profile (had to to sign up) all his info, one comment was looking for discreet relationship, looking for women to have fun and excitement.

 

When I confronted him - he said that he just want to look at pic and porn, had to sign up and fill out completly to see. Just curious, has no idea why he filled the form out the way he did. Just didn't want it to say anything creepy.

 

No other signs of infidelity........................????????????

[sally1530]

get out !!! Run!!!

 

Do you want to wonder all the time if hes going to hook up with any of these girls... its not like a porn site where you would never meet these gals... these are gals who area looking for sex.... you might want to see if hes on lavalife.com as well in the intimate encounters dept... looking for sex...

[Wellnowuknow]

He just wanted to look at some porn.

 

My bf and I had this conversation cuz he came and asked me "babe whats our zip code?"

I was like for what?

"I need to fill this thing out to look at porn"

LOL

U have nothing to worry about.

[The_Analyzer]

I have a friend thats (single) and is on adultfriendfinder...Its a chat. Chat about having sex with others, single, married or whatever. Yes you create a profile but you can also view people that are in your area to "hook" up with. Its a swingers site. I would watch that very carefully. You might want to sit down and talk with him about why he feels the need to be on a site like that. If he tells you its just to look at porn/profiles etc, thats bull. There are others sites to go to for that. This is mainly a chat. People can also swap pics with others if interested in having sex. Keep a watch on that. Good luck.

[kaylarose]

Is it all all possible he was just curious? I have never seen this behavior before.

 

I have read all of the other signs of infedility and absolutely nothing matches.

 

We are married and have 2 small kids.

 

But I dont want to be naive.........

[fredrolin]

I am a married man. I don't and wouldn't cheat. I have filled out a few of those types of forms on those types of websites.

 

Enough said.

[Kasey70]

Its very possible he is just curious. However, I have seen that site before and I know that people that are single are on there as well as married couples. If he just has a profile for himself, you should ask him why he didn't sign the both of you up as couple and see what he says. My guess is if he says he was curious and didn't think you would aprove, then maybe its something he shouldn't be doing anyway. Talk to him and see.

[Cassie123]

Depends on what you consider cheating. Some people feel that cheating is only a physical thing, others feel it can be alot of different things. Emotional cheating is another one. If you feel you're being neglected in some way emotionally because of this, then yes it is a form of cheating. He is taking the emotions he should have for you and putting that energy into something other than your marriage.

 

You stated that you saw in his profile, "looking for a discreet relationship, looking for women to have fun and excitement." I think there's your answer. If he is not cheating, looks to me like he wants to. Him telling you he just wanted to look at porn, thats a load of crap! He can go to any porn site to look at pics. He has a profile, and you need to see and be aware, hes obviously "looking" for something. Keep us posted.